Why didn't he come over?

I had a great first date with a guy last week. It lasted like 3 hours and we ended up walking around, holding hands and kissing a lot at the end. He told me he liked me and wanted to see me the next day. Well the next day came and he said he had to work late and was going out of town after that but we would get together again this week. I texted him to see if he was back from his trip and he said he was and wanted to see me so I asked him to come to my house and hang out. He said he would love to and would text me later. Well that was yesterday and he didn t say anything. I don t understand this. I told him I was ok with being casual and thought that he would come over and we would hook up, why doesn't he want this?

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  • Re-reading your description you never set a specific date for the invitation to your place. It sounds more open ended like he can come by at any time or day. So he was correct in saying he would text you later, which could be today or this weekend.

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    • No, he said later that night

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  • Something could have come up that changed his plans last minute. Plans that are made on the same day are more flexible to being broken. If you plan something days in advance then it is easier to avoid sudden changes to the plan.

    I used to tell my friends to warn me days in advance if they want to do something because I had a hard time committing to something if the plans were made that same day.

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  • Probably something came up

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  • He won't give up his future for women anymore.

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  • Seems like u was too easy 🙄

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