I'm Andrea and I'm 28 years old, living in Sunny California! I have in my final year of medical school- a year from now I'll be a doctor! However, I hold a deep secret. I'm 28, single and still a virgin (rare, I know!).
Throughout the past few years, school has taken over my life. From pre-medicine studies to medical school, it took years of hard work and focus. So, I never got into the dating world!
I believe I would be ready to date after graduation from medical school. I'll be 29 and I'll be a newbie to dating if I give it a chance. I feel no man would be interested in a woman so inexperienced plus my crazy hours at the hospital. I am completely embarrassed.
Is it too late to even give love a try? All these years I've seen my friends fall in and out of love, get married but I'm yet to experience it and to be honest, it does get lonely at times.
Any opinions would be appreciated!
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That's for ask to answer. The question of the day. by the way nice to meet such a great lady. I really respect you from my heart core (if you are true). Aa you said yourself it's rare. Yes, it's rare and you know what rare things are priceless. So it's better to be a rare. Why you want to drain your years of hard work. What happened that's you suddenly started thinking about dating. You have climbed a big ladder and yet to go high and high why you want to disrupt your balance and fall down. Next year you will be a good doctor then do greater studies and achieve a much more great post in the field of medical sciences. Do PhD research and became a big Doctor of the nation, make your parents proud. Why the hell are you looking at your friends dating and doing all that shit. May be many boys now are days try to lure you strictly stay away from them they will destroy your carrier and you won't realize. And if someone truly loves you tell him to wait directly for marriage. If he can he loves you. I want you to be a great person, hope you understand what I mean to say. You are different and made to make a difference. Don't deviate from the track. You thought of minds is getting hit by your friends circle but you need not need to deviate. Stay focused towards your goals. Be a medical angel for 99999999 people around the world are in need of a angel to save there lives. Babies, women , injured soldiers. Old men. Many many lives are waiting for your mind heart and Hands. Be ready... god bless you.
first off... congrats... i love a person (not just a woman) that wants to better themselves FIRST.
i also like the confidence and honesty... so i will be Diesel and be honest too.
First off, your first try is gonna fail... men seem to be intimidated by successful women, im not. i see it as a challenge.
Secondly... you can give love a try but it seem you lack understanding in that aspect.. im only hoping you aren't the emotional type.
Third, you have seen ur friends too huh... that is very discouraging but dont let it discourage You. you got this... you worked hard for it, so show it, be loud, be proud, and own it.
lastly... no one can call you a gold-digging whore... you already got gold.. fuck em... right? I'll be here to guide you if you want to know the inner (not the outer) workings.
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Wow honey you are going to be a doctor and that really is something and not many girls of your age become that
Yea its rare that you are virgin but i think there are many others out there like you, many guys here on this platform say that they are virgins too
And honey you should be blunt about it coz you have been taking your life in phases so i dont think there's much wrong in that
And with your crazy hours i think a doctor can match with a doctor easily coz they would both understand each other fully