As a couple, we had this tradition of going for weekend getaways in cabins in the middle of nowhere, to “remake” what had marked the beginning of our relationship. Last year before we broke up he organized such a weekend in a place he seeked out himself. There was nothing of interest around, it was just a nice cabin.
Last week, he went to that same cabin o holiday with his new girlfriend.
Am I the only one who sees a problem here? Why is he giving his girlfriend second hand things? Why is he ruining our memories like this? Do you consider this an ok behavior?
Most Helpful Guy
Yes. As much as it hurts, you can't expect anything out of anyone. You two are over, and he is not obligated to reserve that memory for you. Been there too :/
Most Helpful Girl
I don’t see why it wouldn’t be ok, should he stop doing anything in life he did with you? Should he stop using the same shower gel he did while you were in a relationship? Or going to the same favourite restaurant?
At the end of the day, it’s none of your business what he does with his new girlfriend and if he wants to create new memories with her doing things he likes then he can