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I have been single for 3 years... although that doesn't bother me so much since I generally enjoy being single and still date girls from time to time.
More importantly, I think you need to work through some things based off what you said... Also, based off your post it sounds like you believe you need* to be in a relationship. My little sister is the same way... I can not stress how healthy it is to be peace with yourself before dating someone else. Being firm in who you are and with your life- aka friends, work, and social life will make you a stronger partner in the future and help expose you to potential partners in the process.
I've been single for 2.5 years. Just take your time, and maybe try getting to know someone as a friends first type thing. There's nothing wrong with being single until you're ready. You're closing yourself off as a defense mechanism and that's normal. I'd say take little steps towards letting people back in and searching for a partner. In time you'll heal. I don't know your situation, or how long you were dating but yeah it can leave a deep emotional scar for a bit, but over time it'll get better.
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Most Helpful Girl
I know how that feels. I stopped dating for like a year lol. Maybe you should try to talk to your friends or people you trust. Or seek therapy