So I asked this girl out once before and she basically said no without suggesting another time or day that works for her. But I saw her at a fundraiser and I asked her "so when are we gonna get together?" and she said after the 13th, this providing me with another date that works for instead of like the first time. So now it's after the 13th, my question is when is too soon to ask her out? Is today (the 15th) too soon or should I wait another day?