My boyfriend smokes weed, I don’t.. what should I do?
What Guys Said 7
He’s right, it is a scam that the government made up to scare people but if you look throughout history weed or hemp has been used in most things that you can buy and use in your house and yard. And as far as the heath thing goes weed has cured more thing then medications have1
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You will never make him stop smoking weed. If you were exposed to people like this, like i do, you would know its fucking impossible to make them stop. They are worse than regular smokers, trust me.
What you should do? Accept that he is a pot head. Its not healthy, but it doesn't make him a bad person and its not a reason to ruin a otherwise good relationship.
Again, trust me when i say your best option is just too accept it. You can't change him, but leaving him for something like that is just stupid in my eyes. I hate smokers myself too, and i wish my girlfriend didn't smoke. But i love her too much to break up over something so trivial and meaningless.2
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His brain is already dead, so if you're ok with that, your one is dead too.0
Doesn't sound like the two of you are a good fit, but since I don't know you it's hard to say for sure. Since this is the lifestyle he was brought up in it is almost inevitable that he will continue to fall back on it with or without your blessing. How you choose to deal with that is up to you.0
If he does something that is fundamentally against your principles and refuses to budge or find a compromis then your realtionship will sooner or later break down and u should quit now before u invest more into it. Unless your find with being always dominated, which a lot of women are.
It does not really matter if weed is good or not, if you see it as being bad or wrong. Its about talking things through and finding a compromis, which is what a couple is about, equality, sharing and understanding.
I am personally exactly the same way as you are, but probably even more extreme, if someone i liked smoked or did drugs i would do my best to get them to quit, if i can not then i would just step away, because it is very much against my principles. Your already far better then i am since your willing to reach a compromis, but even that is rejected.0
Dump the loser and find a new guy. No big deal. Simple as that.0
Well do u hate it?
Or is it just I dont fuck widit type of thing?0
What Girls Said 4
well you're not going to be able to control it clearly, either you get used to it or leave i'm sorry. Plus quite frankly it's weed, it's not meth. We all have different ways to relax, you might like netflix, they're not that much different.0
You can try having a mature conversation with him when he isn’t intoxicated, or you can spend some time apart.0
I would break up. You two value different things0
What is it about weed are you opposed to?
Its not perfectly healthy, nothing you smoke is, hell vapes aren't that healthy either.
But then again neither is chocolate or cheeseburgers.
Is it the drug you're opposed to or his mental addiction to it? Maybe talk to him about recreational vs habitual useage.0
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