Limiting this to dating situations - not marriage. That's a whole different story!
- Yes, I stayed faithful
- No, I cheated again
Most Helpful Guy
The root issue that lead to it had to be dealt with but the one time I did cheat there was no reconciling it before the cheating happened (and in fact is more or less why it happened at all).
That being said if I had been able to get any kind of emotional support or love from her then it wouldn't have happened in the first place. I don't cheat on impulse or just for the sex, when it happened it was because I had been isolated from all my friends and family by my ex wife, she was hitting me and I felt cornered and like I had nowhere to go, a friend was a little more physically comforting than she should have been as she learned what had been going on and that little bit of affection was what it took for me to feel supported enough to get out of the relationship.
Again though if the root issues had been tackled then I couldn't have seen it happening again, I'm a pretty loyal person so it really takes a lot to push me to that point.
Most Helpful Girl
I’ve never cheated in the first place but I chose the second option. If they cheat once, they’ll do it again. You shouldn’t give them another chance