What really bothers me isn't people who don't date interracially, it's people who brag about the fact that they are dating someone of another race... AND THOSE PEOPLE ARE EVERYWHERE. It's to the point that I avoid hanging out with other interracial couples, because I don't want to deal with the holier than thou attitude that so many people seem to have. If I were to be blunt, I would just tell them to relax about it, because in the same way that it's our choice to date someone of another race, it's everyone else's choice to date someone of their own race.
Obviously not all people are like that, but it's a decent number... in my experience, the most obnoxious ones have been white women, honestly... but again: not every one of them is like that.
Has this been anyone else's experience?