Am I just destined to be alone forever?
What Guys Said 2
U need to keep ur head up.. I got good solid answer s for ur thoughts.. cuz u a very special n worth a lot more then those kids or those guys that need to grow up..
Umm your giving of lot's of red flags. Maybe get you head straight before worrying about dating.
What Girls Said 1
Stop being a doormat and take control of your life.
First of all, you should not consent to any sexual interactions if you are not comfortable with the idea. If someone forces you to do anything against your will, then go to the effing police and report them!
Second, stop letting your friends decide for you. Tinder and alike are only good for hookups with strange people. Finding a boyfriend on there is quite rare. Your friend got lucky. Doesn't mean you will too!
You need to stop pitying yourself. You will meet someone eventually. Not everyone needs to be in a relationship starting at the age of 10!
You know what, i never had a real boyfriend until my late 20s. All my other girl friends did. They kept badgering me to find a boyfriend. I just ignored them. Now, 3 of them are divorced, one of them is almost 40 and dumped her boyfriend because he didn't want to get married after 10 years of being in a relationship and another one is in an off again on again relationship with this guy she's been dating since she was 22, who cheats on her regularly and dumps her but keeps coming back and she forgives him because she so badly is hung up on him.
Obviously, I'm better off than my friends who spent all their 20s in a relationship.
Don't rush this. In the meantime enjoy being young. Find yourself a few good friends. Take up a hobby. Join the gym. Learn a different language. Go to a few classes. Start traveling.
All these things are a lot more difficult to do when you have a partner. Don't sit around sobbing about being single.
Being single is a good thing. Enjoy the free time. Pamper yourself!
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