What is your opinion of guys who smoke weed?
Every once in a while?
All the time?
Have you ever tried it?
How much will your opinion of a guy who smokes weed change how you think of him?
My story: I love to smoke weed. It makes me happy, it makes me relaxing. If I'm with a girl who doesn't like it, I won't do it. Won't even mention it. But I guess I have developed a reputation of being a 'pot head', and I feel like this ruins my chances sometimes.
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My opinion in general is that if you can't handle your substances, then that's probably a good indicator that you shouldn't be doing them. For example, your stereotypical stoner who leeches off their parents, doesn't work or TRY to work or take care of any obligations, gets so lazy while stoned that literally nothing ever gets done, does pretty much nothing BUT smoke, doesn't know how to talk about anything unrelated to weed, constantly comes off as slow and dopey, irresponsible and probably not the most intelligent person you've ever met.
I don't care how often a person smokes, or really whether they smoke at all. I smoke pretty often too. Hell, I'm smoking right now. But I also don't let it get in the way of my responsibilities. I've never been late or short on a bill payment from stupid crap like overspending on weed. The stoner company that I prefer to keep tend to be of the same ilk I am, so that would go double for a potential relationship. I don't think I could be serious with someone who can't keep a handle on their vices, especially when the vice is one that has zero physically addictive qualities. It comes down to a matter of willpower. If the weed rules you, then you don't control the weed, and I'm not okay with that.
Sure I've tried it, many thousands of times, since I was 15.
Assuming he keeps on top of it, whether a person does or doesn't smoke pot is irrelevant to my opinion of them., unless it becomes relevant at some point.8
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