Most Helpful Guys
That's the ideal, but sometimes there is some lingering pain or another type of effect, even if it is as benign as wanting someone with a very different personality. We cannot simply erase the past in our minds.
Most Helpful Girls
For me it would be really important, but I have learnt that it is not usually even possible to get closure. Sometimes you have to make the closure yourself.
Very imporant! I need it or else I will ruminate trying to make sense of everything. Sometimes it's hard to get closure depending on the break up situation. I think it's good to settle down and then talk about it after a little bit of time has passed