Now I have a double chin and I'm a plus size. I've been working out everyday for three months and eating only salad with minimal ranch-one meal everyday because that was how I lost 60 pounds back then. But I'm only gaining weight.
Now Everytime I'm with my boyfriend, girls always tell him to leave me because I'm ugly or flirt with him in front of me or when I'm not around. It gets me insecure and upset. Aren't men and women supposed to back off when they see a couple holding hands? Why would you want to ruin someone's relationship when they are happy together? I thought women should help each other not put other women down because of their weight and looks.
These women who do this usually have a nice body, big butt and boobs, big lips that look like it's undergone surgery. My boyfriend has been supportive but it bothers me a lot because it makes me feel like I'm not good enough or beautiful enough.
What should I do? How can I love myself more despite these girls doing these things?
Most Helpful Guy
Any woman trying to get me to break up with my girlfriend to go out with her is an automatic dealbreaker and would get blocked/ignored. I would never go out with such a woman, also if she were doing that to another couple. My guess is that your boyfriend is the same way.
Do the best you can to ignore them and focus on your relationship with him and getting to where you want to be.
Other women, unless they are friends, aren't going to be helpful to you and there are people like these girls that would try to steal a guy.
Most Helpful Girl
No ones going to ruin your relationship except your insecurity. DON’T show him that you’re insecure. Since he’s supportive and clearly doesn’t listen to those women, you’re safe! Try to relax sis and if you have troubles then TALK to your man. The biggest relationship killer is lack of communication!
Your boyfriend seems sweet and he knows the beauty underneath these fat cells so don’t worry about it. You’re not losing weight because you’re stressing! Relax, have a good time with your man and try to lose weight in a healthy way. If he ends up leaving then you know he wants fake hoes who are only there for a good time, and not a loyal woman who’s willing to have his back for a long time.