My boyfriend’s social media behavior is driving me insane, what should I do?
What Guys Said 6
I have snapchat but ask me if i use it? lol
I`ll prolly just open it every once in a while
But some people are so addicted that they have to take a snap of every little thing.
For fucks sake... Do he use his time with you? Or on his phone?
You are already his, now he's looking for somone else, probably tired of potatoes everyday
What Girls Said 9
Talk with him about it and tell him how you feel, ask him how he feels
Doesn't mean he is cheating, just could be that your relationship cooled off a little and both just need to talk things out and do new stuff
And also by the way if you feel something is off, then something is off, trust your gut feeling
So glad my lover doesn't have a ton of social media. All he has is the website we met each other on. Though we can talk to other people... it would be weird not knowing who he's talking to!
Tell your boyfriend you're not sure how he really feels about you. If you're supposed to be exclusive, this is messed up. Social media fucks up everything. Do you love him? Figure out if YOU still feel the same way about him.
Note; I only do open relationships now because I don't trust anyone.
I had a suspect ass ex who did the Snapchat thing. Personally I think it’s self absorbed nonsense. It’s just girls showing off themselves. We’ve since broken up. It was so obvious how into self absorbed culture he was
If it bothers you either ignore it or dump his ass. Your intuition of cheating may be correct.
Lol this 19 year old who hit me up at the gym insisted I add him so when I finally did he just wouldn't stop sending me selfies, maybe he's just a narcissist like that...
You can't find out if he's cheating, but if you don't trust him and immediately associate him being on Snapchat with cheating, then there is a suspicion (trust) problem that you have to think about. Relationships with zero trust can never last. If he's the type of person to cheat then you should leave. If you dont know him enough to know if he's a person who's capable of cheating, that's also a bad thing..
Also.. just a side note, if you have time to always stalk your boyfriend on social media, that might be a bit of an obsession that you need to work on, if not for this relationship, then for future relationships.
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Maybe he just wants s p a c e?
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