I've been in love with my ex for over a year now. We dated briefly a year ago and since then things have been a little rocky for both of us.
I came back 3 months ago after spending 9 months in another country. He'd continued to speak to me during that time and asked for news now and then.
I came back only to find out that he was dating another women, the first since we were not together anymore. However he's stare at me all he could whenever he saw me and acted all flirtatious when we'd speak, I even caught him telling his flatmate that he still liked me, so I thought I might still have a chance.
I decided to send him a message the week before I left again just because I wanted to see him again, one last time. He did not reply. We never had the occasion to talk about it, until today.
He connected himself on the fb chat and started apologizing for his non-answer. He told me things where pretty complicated back then and that he wish he had.
He also asked what would have happened if we had seen each other and why I wanted to see him before I left, why him more than another guy.
I'm confused. What does he want? What is he thinking?
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Hard to say what he is thinking but he is thinking about you on some level or you wouldn't be in the position to wonder. I say that you should talk to him, be honest with yourself about what you want with him and then answer his questions honestly as well. If you are back now without plans for another extended leave, why not see if you can start this up again and see where it ends up. Since you two only dated briefly but you have continued to have strong feelings for him, well I would keep in mind that you really need time to get to know each other, live and in person, before you know if the real deal with live up to your expectations. Good luck!0