- I would be okay in either case
- Yes to the first, no to the second
- No to either of them
- Yes to the second, no to the first
Would you be cool with dating someone who only first took interest in you for your race?
What Girls Said 4
I have a racial preference, so its only fair.
Plus just because theyre interested in me because of my race, it doesn't mean that they wouldn't love me for my personality.
And if they were not interested in me if i were a different race.. Well they propably wouldn't be interested in me if i were 50kg heavier or of a different gender. Its just normal, isn't it.
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Honestly, no. I'd feel fetishized. I actually rejected multiple white and black men who kept mentioning my ethnicity, I felt uncomfortable. I don't think it was with malicious intent, but it was just so much that I don't think I could deal with that for the rest of our lives (and i date for ever or for never. So don't come at me with that "it's just a date, give them a chance" crap).
Like what if I'm not "Latina" enough for them? I was born and raised here in the US. I was raised to Mexican parents and most of my family wasn't born here. But I'd still feel awkward. It's a no from me bro
Hell no! That's racist as hell!
No that's racist
What Guys Said 6
No. Because I am far, far more than my race. I wasn't given a choice to pick my race at birth. I did not put any effort into achieving my race. I am an individual, with hopes and dreams and idiosyncracies, not a representation of a race or any group of people.
I dont really mind what anyone STARTS dating me for, I mostly care about what it develops into. If we were to fall in love, it wouldn't matter what feelings first brought us together.
Sure... it is only their first interest. Just so long as they find more valid reasons to like you more.
Ya as I don’t believe In racial preferences to that extent. I probably would find it a little uncomfortable
—> id prefer her to be with me for me more over what race I am
i wouldn't date someone who was only dating me as a fetish
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