How open are you with a date about how you feel about them?

This probably applies to the second date or later.

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  • I'm an upfront sort of person. So I'd be open and honest about how I felt about him. That way he'd know where he stands with me.

    It takes a while for me to develop feelings for a guy though. I need to know him on a deeper level before I start to have any feelings for him. It takes time to develop an emotional connection too. But if I liked him a lot, and i enjoyed being with him, I'd tell him that outright

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  • Other factors would be involved here, such as 1) How long we’ve known each other prior to the date 2). How comfortable we both are
    3) Can I read him well/would he feel similar
    I would not want to cause discomfort or him leaving because I’m forward with my thoughts/feelings.

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Most Helpful Guys

  • Very open. No need to waste time. Either she's it or not.

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  • quite open.
    what do you intend to reach with lying or hiding stuff?

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What Girls Said 7

  • I'M too open. My problem is talking about an ex ant then having the guy do the exact same thing to me. I learnt a very valuable lesson, remember the lessons from your past but don't take them into the future.

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  • I don't talk about it unless I can tell he really likes me.

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  • I wouldn't want it to escalate that damn quick.

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  • Straightforward

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  • Not at all.

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  • Mostly open.

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  • I follow their lead. If they keep their cards close to their chest then so will I. If they share how they feel then il do the same.

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What Guys Said 11

  • Not at all for a while. Don't want to be scaring them away so soon. Besides, you don't know shit about someone for at least 3 or 4 dates and if you're compatible, their attitudes towards sex etc.

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  • I always try to be more direct and straightforward with my feelings, but it's never easy.

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  • I would be open but I would never been rude or insulting if there was something I didn't like about them.

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  • That is variable and dependent on how open they appear to be

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  • Not sure. If I go on a date, I might have to come back and answer this one.

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  • Never been on a second date, but I would say it right away.

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  • Either sex happens by the third date or next.

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  • Very open

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  • I’d let them know

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  • Stop acting I'll not try lag subject

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  • You NEVER tell a woman how you truly feel EVER. That's rule # 1 in dating.

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