I have been dating a guy for about a year now and we have this habit of breaking up abd then getting back together. He told me this time that we would never get back together. He still calls me his girlfriend and he still want to do things that couples do but swears up and down that we're not friends with benefits. Another day he tells me that we should give things time Now today he is telling me that I am cold, evil, relentless person, He feels that I don't respect him but yet how can I respect someone that says these things and doesn't show any remorse for it? When I said some things that hurt him. I apologize for it, but when he says things that hurts me he acts as though nothing is wrong? Everytime we have an arguement he feels as though he does nothing wrong and its all my fault! I don't know what to do anymore? Every time we break up we always feel so bad about and try it again, but I never know how he really feels because each day its something different. He says he still loves me and doesn't want to cut me of. So what shoud I do about this?!
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From what you've stated, I can see that this guy just wants to use you. For one, I will start off saying you should definitely drop him. He doesn't care about your feelings, that's why he continues to break up with you whenever he sees fit. If he really loved you he wouldn't say or do anything that would ever hurt you, emotional or physical. To me it sounds like he is using you as a friend with benefits, but he told you that ahead of time to reassure you and keep your guard down.
Relationships change over time. Some for the worse, others prosper. This is one that you'll have to let go and try again. Let him go, because leading a relationship that will go nowhere will end up in more heartache. You future with him will just cause more breakups, more fights, and you should not have to deal with any of it. If he actually did love and care for you he wouldn't degrade you and keep you feeling miserable. Find someone who wants to be with you, makes you happy and takes your feelings to heart. This guy however, isn't the 'one'.