I ask this because it takes more than a pretty face to get my attention. And every woman i meet just seems colorless to me.
Is there any advice you'd give to expedite the process to see if we're right for each other.
Most Helpful Guys
It seems like there's a common thread here with all the women, there's ALWAYS a pattern. It's not that all women are the same, but rather that you're attracting a certain type of woman. If the same thing keeps happening over and over again then as harsh as it sounds then it's probably something you're doing, or the fact that you're doing the same thing over and over again.
My advice to you is to reflect on your recent dating experiences, find out the common thread there, then try something different next time. It could be something to do with where/how you meet them, what you're doing on dates, or it could be even be that you specifically pursue a certain kind of woman.
For example, if you usually meet women on an online dating app try meeting them in person instead. If you normally do the whole "date to find love" thing try a more casual approach and have sex within the first 3 dates. Or if you "tone things down" to try and please or impress your date, try not toning things down and see if your date can handle it or not.
What do you mean all the same? Bland personalities?
Could be they are nervous so don't open up to you. Throw some humour their way so they relax with you. Girls are worried about being judged so try ease their concerns by not asking too many questions and let the conversation flow naturally.
Most Helpful Girl
We think the same about men. They aren’t all the same though, I know that but like you say “they all come off the same”
You just need to find the ones who don’t give a shit about following a trend, are not bothered about likes and comments on social media and who are just generally down to Earth. I’m sure they’re rare but I just described me there. So we exist.