I asked him if he talks to other girls, he said no.
He said he only wants me, Im the only girl, blabla...
then why does he follow other girls?
If i confront him about it, he will get upset and probably ignore or delete me.
What should i do? It really breaks my heart. I hate how much impact this has on me. I wish i wasn't so emotional...
Being involved with guys is too frustrating for me. Im way too jealous and insecure. No guy nowadays accepts such behaviour.
He will just go on the net and find another chick with one click...
Thank you guys for helping me and empowering me to say bye to that guy.
He follows girls from his area, normal girls, potential partners. Thats why I was worrying...
Also he's been ignoring my message since yesterday. I texted him that I feel like Im bothering him when i message him.
He hasn't reacted since...
So many red flags and no gos and here's me, still hoping. Why am i so dumb?
Most Helpful Girl
I met my boyfriend from penpal site too and i understand how this is very emotionally wrecking.
I'd say simply be honest of what you feel but don't nag about it. nagging and restricting only push people away
I used to nag and told him it's wrong and disgusting behavior and we even argued A LOT because I was insecure and jealous of not wanting to lose him but that is what pushed him away ironically.
He might have followed them but not talking to them. they could be his eye candies (trust me i hate it too, but some men are like that)
I mean, you can't stop them looking for affairs if he wants to but you can save yourself from being with someone who doesn't deserve your love and time
If this is still too much, then leave
save yourself from upcoming brokenhearts
Most Helpful Guys
No guy or girl wants to see this come across their phone.
"I feel like I am bothering you when I message you."
No matter what happens with this guy or a guy in the future you need to get this insecure needy behavior under control. You need to be confident in yourself and what you say.
Getting jealous will only push him away. No good will come of it. If you stop him talking to girls then you are restricting him. I had an ex who went mental at me every time I met my best friend who was female... She had to be there or I was dead... Relationship fell apart quite quickly