I wouldn`t say that i`m too picky, but there are fewer things i do look at closely now.
The older i get, the more observant i am.
How the person behaves. Example: girls/women on social media with their daily "men are trash" statuses/tweets. Yeah, that`s a hard pass. That`s enough of an indication for me to know that you have toxic behavior.
Or the person`s spending habits.
etc etc etc
I`m picky in that sense. Not when it has to do with how much ass she has, or what color her hair is, or the amount of makeup she puts on lol. No, nothing like that.