How long does it take you to plan a first date?


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  • I hope my date would plan it or my nerves might get the best of me. It takes me a while to figure out what to wear and things like that. I want to look nice for my handsome date.

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  • Well it depends on our agendas and how much I trust the person I’m going on a date with. But to set a day and time it can take me up to an hour or 30 mins.

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  • 2 seconds random food place just in the local area picked at random and any time it’s a first date not the one just before marage can be as simple as you want

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  • Days to a week in advance if it's a first date or someone I don't know well- I like things to be planned out, and we do something both of us enjoy

    If it's someone I'm comfortable with or been with for a while, we can just wing it! By that point we know each other so one of us can just suggest a place or surprise the other and it's okay.

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  • I just wing it, and go with the flow. My first "date" was just eat dinner at a restaurant (red robins) and then chill.

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  • Depends. I have three go-to's.

    One: Study date. The old "oh I don't understand this, help me out?" method that's been in practice since universities were invented.

    Two: Restaurant. Your standard first date, don't know a ton about the person beforehand and need conversation in a public place.

    Three: Gun Range. If she's into shooting, or curious and I think she'd be fine its a good choice. Activity to focus on, chance to show off the shiny IDPA certified sharpshooting, and a pretense for naturally breaking the touch barrier. Afterwords get something to eat and chat while playing my favorite podcast on the way back.

    I prefer number three. It's my go to "is she cool" test.

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  • Well, when I asked her to be my girlfriend I kinda thought about what I would say the day before, and had planned the places we were going to see that day, during the days before

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  • Umm a few minutes?

    It's a first date it shouldn't be too extravagant. Do something simple and get to know each other.

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  • A week. It depends on if I really want to go on that date

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  • That really depends on the date. Have you known this person or is it blind? Some i've known for a couple years. some i've known for a couple days.

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  • Despite myself being a planner, I admit that my first date with my girlfriend just happened.

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  • About 20 seconds. I have good taste well most of the time.

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  • It depends on what I think she would enjoy. On average, I would say that I take 30 min. Some have taken several days. Others have taken seconds. Lmao

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  • About 1 to 2 hours, until all the localities are fixed and reserved

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  • Apparently at least 30 years. lol
    😣

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  • Could be 5 minutes or 5 hours

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  • Hour

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  • Half a second.

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  • 10 minutes maybe

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  • Five minutes or less.

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  • I just wing it

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  • No clue.

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  • No idea about 20 minutes.

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  • 1-2 days

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  • The most it's ever taken me was about 5 minutes

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  • About a few weeks

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  • eight seconds

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  • 2 weeks

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