- I would be pissed and leave
- she's hot I'd stay
Men what would you do if your date no longer looks like the tinder pic she displayed?
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I guess it's going to depend on there personally and intelligence level, and i guess how hot they still look. As for the few pounds they gaind. Well, i am actually attracted to women, with a little thickness to them. Not really fat fat, but with a little more harteness to them i guess. So, most likely, i'd be just fine with them and depending if i had fun with her. I may ask her out again sometime.
Depends how drastic the difference is. If we are going off of the fact she looked more fit and slimmer in an older photo, but looked really out of shape, then no go.
I would follow through with the date out of common courtesy. Red flag is she lied about what she currently looked like and the second is I also like women who are fit and exercise frequently.
Well it depends really on how extreme and whether or not it was done to manipulate me or not. I mean if it was a dramatic difference and she clearly did it to try and catfish me, then yeah I would be pissed and not date her, but if it wasn't then I would be fine with it (we all change over time, look this way or that way in different light etc.).
I'd squeeze her somewhere to make sure it is real. and thank her for adding on some extra calories as I can think of some creative ways to burn them off.
Women are notorious about posting 5-10yr old photos and of them in better shape.
A few pounds is a few pounds. I actually dated someone from online that had that happen to him but it wasn’t a few pounds nor a few years. He was nice and still took her to dinner but at the end when dropping her home, he nicely said something about her misrepresenting herself. So he was pretty leery the next time which was me
I'd still go on a date with her looks are just a small part of what I'm looking for. Your can have a girl that beautiful but is she intelligent how is her personality. so give people a chance she might not be all you want the looks-wise for the personality may be great she may also have a great sense of humor like I said your people a chance you never know you might like what you find
It depends how big the difference is. If the pic she had was from a year ago and she put on only a few pounds (like above) then I wouldn't be too bothered.
If she posted an older picture of herself or worked her angles, and she shows up being clearly much larger than the pictures made me believe I'd feel lied to. Usually I'd arrange Tinder dates at bars for drinks, in this case I'd likely hang around for 1-2 drinks out of courtesy then end the date after 40 mins to 1 hour.
I would still date her. She's still the same person (albeit older and possibly bigger). The only time I wouldn't date someone based on their profile picture is if they posted a picture of someone else completely. I might even consider not dating her if she even photochopped her picture. But an older picture of her when she was younger? I'd still date her.
Generally, I'd overlook it. There could be a number of reasons why their appearance changed. E. g. they got injured or they suffered an illness that force them not to eat certain foods.
It's not a massive dealbreaker really.
i would find her to be dishonest. it's one thing to be a few pounds heavier but those two pics look like entirely different people. so trust would be an issue for me
Everyone looks different from pics one way or another. wouldn't be a big deal, i'd probably tease them about it. How they dealt with some gentle mocking would tell me more than their appearance
As with most things, it depends on what the difference is. If she is still attractive, I'd stay. If she is a clear catfish... I'd probably stay, but cut the date short.
If the picture was a gross misrepresentation, and you aren't attracted, then it's reasonable to say "sorry, you aren't what I expected" and just go.
I'd be pissed but stay because that's pretty shallow and maybe they just didn't bother updating? I'd keep an eu
I'd be annoyed. Not that I found her to be unattractive, but because she was willing to be so deceptive.
I can't vote on this one and here is why. I have done this in the past since I was too lazy to upload a current picture of myself and I liked the way my older one turned out. Really, I didn't put on that much more weight and I look the same and I still work out from time to time. However, if you are a girl and there is a significant difference and I mean night and day difference, "a few pounds" could be a kind description for yourself compared to what the guy is seeing.
Lets be honest and get the shallow part of us out of the way right now! If I find the girl attractive, even with "a few pounds" from her older picture, I am going to want to date her. In all fairness, if I expect her to be fit, I better meet her with a chiseled body to get her hot over, as well! Good, we can now go to the gym together and really build upon our relationship!
Lets just be honest and realistic about what we are looking for and how to get that hot body we all want!
This guy who was at least 15-20 kg heavier in real life recognised me at a party and came to talk to me and I was like "Who even are you?"
I was so shocked and confused I didn't even know how to react.
So if it's that severe I'd choose to politely refuse to see them.
On the other hand I feel like everyone looks different in pictures, especially when they are pictures taken by that person themselves. We all know our best angles and choose good lighting, then continue to apply a filter that makes our eyes pop or whatever. That's totally fine.
I draw the line when they are way heavier or skinnier than they make me believe or edited themselves so they look unrecognisable in person.
I would not be too annoyed with the difference.
Many girls change weight easily and would have to update pics weekly.
Go with it
If I was expecting left and got right, I'd be disappointed
If I was expecting right and got left, I'd be pleasantly surprised, and wonder if she got implants.
A few pounds different wouldn't bother me but if she was like a lot of pounds different i would be turned off considering she lied. to me I would hate the fact that she couldnt just be herself
She also lost a sense of style it seems. The recent picture isn't awful due to her weight gain... looks awful due to her clothing choices.
I'd ask her if we could video chat (with Skype so it's harder to use filters) to minimize any false advertising with photoshopping before going on a date.
Depend how different she is. If she looks like shit while having a pretty pic, I consider that a lie.
I’d feel like that was deceptive behavior. I don’t want to completely absolve myself, that’s shallow on my end to some degree, but at the same time, if I need to be attracted to someone, that’s just what it is. I guess I’d just not recommend the “foot-in-the-door” move for anyone, overall. It also says to me that you aren’t confident or comfortable with yourself, which makes me sad for you, but also would make me fear that those insecurities would manifest themselves in ways that were annoying or detrimental to me and my own peace of mind.
whats that matter here pic was just for reference so nevermind , yea a workout with me for 6months gonna put her back where she was ! :P
if i and she clicked and she had a good personality then I wouldn't care what she looked like (as long as she was female)
the perks of getting to know someone for their personality is that you fall for them on that level, and we all should realise that some people look far different in person than they do in pic's, some dont do photo's well or use a better photo than they do later on... others are naturally photogenic and therefore are able to look good in their pics
but either way I'd stay as I'd gotten to know them I would want to see where our adventures take us
That happened more than once. What I do is be kind and do the date and don’t ask for anything more.
Depends on how big the difference. If the difference is the two pics, i'd probably look between the lines.
if it's "just a few", i'm good. if she's gottan fat (which happened a lot fo times to me), it's annoying and makes me feel betrayed.
As long as it's not much of a difference it's fine, a few pounds is not an issue at all. What matter more is what kind of a person she is.
If its a complete change in appearance id still stick around and decide after. But she has already lied at the start of the relationship.
You don't really expect everyone on a dating site or app to be 100% genuine do you?
Throw her ass away like she was a dude who wasn't 6'5. Easy.
i actually think the picture on left kinda looks like a conceited slut whereas the right one looks cooler
If she still look the same hot and nice then i wouldn't care few 2kg or 5kg... as long as she look okey.
if she looks like the big boobs blonde why would I leave lmao
Depends on how bad the difference is
May be I'll adjust
I'd call the FTC and file a consumer complaint regarding false advertising.
If all the weight went to her tits that would be alright
I would think she's insecure and is a "the ends justify the means" type and would lose all interest.
If she still looks good and i find her attractive still, i would have no problem with it.
First lie :(
She Will have to make up for it during the date. Or I won't agree on a second
I just simply say it was fraud if he/she uses old photo
Be like. “I just got catfished”
I choose C. continue the date
Then it would be normal.
Depends on how bad the difference is.
Looks fade. And she doesn't look like that 247
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