Asking because I have had mixed options on this. I prefer to be completely myself and friends have said I act different at first?
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Be yourself because once somebody sees the real you and tehybdont like it, they will dump you or ghost you anyway. It's better to be real than be dating a fraud. That's why I refuse to date strangers and be with people I am friends with for years and know. I have to already know their habits, their desires and personal information of their lives. Otherwise, I will distrust you and it would get my intuition flaring up that your hiding something. And of your body language expresses it I am going to find out. So rule of thumb: you can't hide or lie to me. Better to come with the truth even of I won't like it. I don't like fake people. I am not looking for a performance or an entertainer. I asked for a partner I can trust and have in my life. And I expect that person to share the same feelings.
I would prefer for him to be himself more than try to sell himself. I mean if I said yes to a date, he doesn’t need to try to sell himself so much when he already got me to say yes to go on a date. I’d rather get to know what kind of person he is and his personality, so I would know if he can be okay and handle the way I am when I’m completely myself, which I mostly joke around and make the best out of things. And I know some guys to who have taken things too seriously and they don’t get the joke or sarcasm. Then THEY just think I’M weird one lol
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Sell themselves. A confident girl is a rare treat.
Most girls regret showing their true selves afterwards thinking it's a problem for you when it's not, then get insecure and don't speak to you again cause they're scared of being dumped. They prefer to reject themselves.
"Would you want someone to be themselves. . ." No, I want them to be someone else. :)