So there's this guy and he's basically perfect and I mean perfect.
He's really smart, funny, he's really cute,he's getting a scholarship to big schools for his skills as a football player, and from what I hear he's a really good guy.
So of course I become interested in him, even though honestly he's not my type but for some reason I really like him. I ask my friend ,who has a class with him, about him and she tells me that he's in only advanced classes, he like helps charities, getting scholarship offers from all these really well known schools, he's really nice, he's really popular and to top it off he's a virgin.
So basically this guys like captain perfect.
I however, am not, I not that smart though I am I do take some AP classes, maybe I'm just lazy, anyways, I don't hang around the perfect crowd of people, I'm not in any extracurricular activities, I suck at sports and I'm surely not a virgin.
I know your like "GIVE UP NOW!" or "he probably doesn't even like you" or some crap like that but ever since I've been going to this school he's always looking at me and I'm telling you I know this look, I've given it to plenty of a fellow in my day. He's also added me on facebook, which amazes me because I've never spoken a word to this guy and I freaked out even more when I told my friends about it because apparently he doesn't really add people on facebook, people tend to add him. [maybe I'm overreacting >_>]
So everyone's probably gonna say then why hasn't he asked you out..well I sorta left out the part about him sorta having a girlfriend. She's a senior cheerleader that he's been going out with before I even came to the school. She always gives me the dirtiest looks, it's probably because he sometimes looks at me when she's around.
The point is even if he wasn't with her I don't know If I'd been able to date this guy, I mean I'd feel like I'd ruin his pureness and If I did everyone would know it was because of me.
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No one is perfect. That pedestal your placing him on is crippling. Not only does it hinder your chances but if you were to succeed it would damage the relationship itself. No one can live up to perfection. Remove it and the world will open up to you.
Honestly, if you choose to take only one piece of advice to heart in your lifetime, let it be this... Idolize no one. Perfection is an illusion.0