Most Helpful Girls
Not anymore. When I was younger, I thought I was single because I was fat, unattractive, not feminine enough, didn't dress or act a certain way, guys only saw me as a friend... the list goes on.
So I worked on changing myself- guess what? I was STILL single and guys avoided me like the plague! So that made me feel like crap knowing I wasn't desirable to others.
Eventually I got older and stopped caring. Don't ask me why or what caused my feelings to shift: indifference or maybe I realized being single doesn't define me. That and I'm happier not stressing out over being in a relationship anymore.
Most Helpful Guys
It's not like I really care about being single apart from feeling a bit lonely when I'm having a bad time. But I also think it is kind of my own fault for being way too picky over a girl. Not like they are lining up for me. I go out a lot and meet a lot of people but never have I felt someone was liking me in that way or was I ever approached by someone. At the end of the day, people always say: yeah there is always someone walking around for you. But what if you never get to meet this person?