of dating a girl who is a mom? or what are downfalls.
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did it for 7 years total. dated for 6 and was married for the last year. I gave them my all and she just waited her time and left me for a rich executive a year after we married. the problems with it are tendency to still mess with babys father. they sometimes want to cherry pick your involvement with the child if things get serious. (meaning that they want to bring you in as a father/husband but you never really have true input on child raising, so your hands are tied behind your back with the child no matter what they do or how much you know a situation is wrong) the childs real dad could be a crack head and you could have poured your heart and soul into raising that child and in the end despite the lovely stories you see on t.v. that child will still think their dad is great and that you are just some other guy. you can't ever do what you want to do because its all about the kid, 24/7...yet she don't want you going out and having fun without her, so while all your friends are doing whatever, you are sitting there with her and the kid everyday. you lose touch with your own family cause you have to constantly be with her and the kid. her family usually helps out with the kid so that tends to be the circles you stay in if you want to see her and the kid. sorry to bust anybodys bubble but that how it is with all my friends dating a girl with a kid and that's how it was for the 7 years I did it.
are there exceptions? yes. but lets keep it real, this is why so many guys shy away from it and have for so long. these are not new problems and have been around since the beginning of man and woman and relationships. we can try to sound all cute and give a greeting card answer on here but at the end of the day, the truth is the truth.0