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Reality, you really can’t forget but you can lose the strong feelings as time goes by (Maybe) My mother reconnected with a friend from 30 years ago the first guy that purpose to her ended up separated due to a trauma matter, he found her on Facebook and the spark between them never left. They chat every day and video... sad thing she is married with my father 28 years... thinking about divorcing him because he isn't treating her right... it’s crazy how life changes and how love re create and readjust. BUT the ending of her long lost boo, was good, he didn’t cheat. just trauma separated them. It all shocks me how life work lol I guess this is how 22 feels.
My first "love", the guy I who I had my first serious relationship with, passed away a couple of years ago. I feel it's complicated because I did feel I loved him a long time ago but he was also abusive and cheated on me. I tried to stay in contact with him because I did have a child with him but he made it hard to even co parent. Even if he was alive, I wouldn't go back to him. I don't wish I never met him because I do have my son who is my world but I wish I didn't put up with his shit for as long as I did. I feel having my son made me strong enough to love myself and leave that relationship.
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Your first true love I don’t believe you ever forget. You probably shared a lot of firsts with that person. I know in my case I did. They meant everything to me. Still do to be honest. Feelings sometimes go away and sometimes do not. Just depends on the amount of emotional connection you had with them. If the relationship was especially good it’s normal to have feelings like this. If I could go back to my ex I would 100 percent. Sometimes it hurts to the point you almost wish you could erase all of it like it never happened but then you would lose all the positive memories too which I wouldn’t trade for the world.
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