- Yes a man should pay for everything
- No a man shouldn’t pay for everything
Most Helpful Girl
Your stepmom needs to chill out and back out of your life and finances!
Last time I checked it was the 21st century and women are just as capable of paying and treating their men in a relationship! Just because she has that backwards mentality doesn't mean you have to follow it. Nowadays it's common for people in a relationship to split the costs, alternate who pays, or even pay their own way... shocking I know, lol.
It's your money and as long as you're spending it responsibly and earning it yourself, it's none of her business how you spend it!
Most Helpful Guys
No I don't think a man should pay for everything, I mean there's doing sweet things like paying for the meal of a first date or buying you something because you want it but if you want to buy something for your guy just to do something nice then you should be able to. If a man paid for absolutely everything when involved with a woman then he'd never ever have any money to do anything else.
Why should men be forced to pay for everything.. additionally you're 18.. take your money and open a new bank account at a different bank that she doesn't have access to, your finances are none of her business.. end of story..
Your mom is not a good person If she is still controlling you like that.