I never thought I would until I had a casual encounter with a woman I met on Craigslist. She responded to an ad I posted seeking a dominant woman and even though she didn't have any pictures I knew she had a nice body based on her measurements as well as a sexy voice when I called to verify she was for real. She told me she'd be a bossy bitch in the bedroom and it was no lie. She turned out to be black and hadn't mentioned it because the power dynamics added to the kink factor. Would I kneel before her naked and allow her to handcuff me and apply the choke leash she had and become her sex slave? Or would I be the panzy-ass who flees a sexy lady who risked inviting me into her apartment for nsa sex? She was a boss, and into freaky stuff I like in bed that many women are reluctant to do, ever, let alone the first time having sex. She loved how I licked her, and she enjoyed licking me everywhere too, and fingered me when she decided to suck my cock. She wondered if I ever sucked dick and when I told her no she suggested I try it since I liked oral so much.But fucking she loved most of all. And we did it raw after the one condom I had broke, which I never imagined doing and didn't want to do but we were both so into the heat of the moment it just happened. The contrast of our black and white skin was really hot She revealed she was a schoolteacher and that she fantasized about her students but would never act on it. She told me my body was really fine, but I should pick clothes to show it off more. She loved it hearing she was the first black woman I'd ever been with, and stayed up all night fucking, caressing, and going at it some more for several rounds. She finally released me at 6am because she had to get ready for her teaching job.We were intense at times, but gentle and affection at other times, and I remember we looked very much like the above pic at one point. It was just a one night thing. But I started dating outside my race on a regular basis afterwards. .
Thanks for sharing your story 💜💙🖤
Of course, I thought it important to share my experience here because it's stil so stigmatized. :)
I have only ever dated outside of my race. I just find the idea of having a partner soa similar to me as really boring and I don't like the idea of "settling down" with someone. I would much rather be with someone who is polar opposites to me and bursting with life and culture and vibrancy. Having said that I also find girls from around the world and different races to be very attractive. I think the colour contrast can be quite a big turn on... also mixed babies are super cute... and I have never been the type to turn down an interesting opportunity to experiment.. 😉
So beautiful 😇
I am biracial (half-white and half-black) and Canadian. Even though I have a big preferences for white Europeans, I would still date people from other cultures. I've been with a Jamaican Filipino, Indian, Dutch and now I'm dating a Russian. So race, culture, ethnicity doesn't really matter to me. I'd date anyone depending on how they look and their personality even though I have a preference.But, I seriously love the skincolor contrast between me and my boyfriend. I think it is incredibly beautiful.
I'm currently in love with a black guy and I'm white. So, definitely yesLove doesn't care about race
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My race is human. I have dated white, Asian, Latina, and black - if I like the girl, I like the girl. Skin color doesn't mean anything to me - culture does. As long as we are culturally compatible, it's all good.
Well said... I should've said that.
Skin colour and culture are generally tied together
Often, but certainly there are plenty of exceptions.
trudat, just important to remember the rule takes precedent over the exception.
I am Caucasian and I have dated Caucasian women from the US, Ukraine, Poland, Germany, Ireland, as well as women from Philippines, India, Argentina, and Colombia. I have never dated a black woman; I have met very few black women to whom I felt any attraction and most of the black women I have met have had a distinctly black culture which is inconsistent with mine.
Yes I would! 😊
Yeah, I have numerous times before.
Oh my gosh! Is that iron first and misty night? 😍🥰 I know that love knows no color and I have been attracted to girls of all different ethic backgrounds but my fist love is black woman. I will always have a soft (or hard; which ever you prefer 🤷♂️) spot for black woman!
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Yeah I am surprised you didn’t get better results.
the human race nounDefinition of the human race: all people : human beings as a groupthe history of the human racedestructive weapons that could wipe out the (whole) human race_______________________________________________________________-So technically this question is flawed, lol. Dating outside of my race would be like dating a gerbil or something, lol!!!
I feel bad about the question now. Sorry that it was dumb 😢
I was just being technical. In the Bible, it pretty much tells that a Christian should not marry a non christian. As for skin color, no. I myself am only physically attracted to only certain kinds of girls. Not all.
Yes, I would because I love women of all "races".. But also because I believe race is a social construct, and I have the right to be opened to all groups of human females.. It's just humans datin humans..
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Of course.. 8)
Yes I would and have. I like a person for who they are, not what race
Hell yeah I would. I've dated White, black, arbic a few other. Of course there's difference of opinion on some subjects but me being mexican in all honesty I don't like dating in my race for many reasons so of course.
Only thing that matters is the connection. Race shouldn't matter. I even dislike using the word race because it makes someone sound less human. That's why I personally us ethnicity. Didn't mean to go on a rant. But I hope that makes sense.
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You're very welcome 😊
Well, currently I'm not single but if I were, the answer would be no, because there is only one race; the human race xx
Of course I would date outside of my race. I see attractive and intelligent girls of other races commonly, though I'm not looking, as I have my girl.
Nicely said 🖤
Maybe, I've never had the opportunity and I'm with a great guy. I dont know if black guys like ginger haired girls.
I'm sure some do lol💜💙🖤
Yes. There is no race I'd prefer. There are attractive people in every race.
I 100% agree. Thanks for responding 💜💙💚
I would, but I do prefer someone who has a similar ethnicity to mine (the Celtic groups from the British Isles) because we'd have similar family history and traditions. This preference wouldn't stop me though because there are many girls I find attractive from around the world.
Yes , i have and dont see anything. wrong with it, we are all human so if i find her attractive and she has a big heart thats all that matters
Married outside my race first three years were some of the hardest just learning cultural differences that and trying to teach them English
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A lot of work and still is to this day 13 years later but. Ikme it
🤦♀️When are we going to get over abstract concepts? We're talking about people. Black, white, yellow, blue, those are all conceptual fences within the heads of… well… um… simpler folk. I'm not out to condemn them. We can't burn them just for the sake of progress. But we do need to try and educate themn (NOT SHAME THEM!). They are our brothers and sisters too, so… I know, it ain't easy. We need to bring it all into focus without hurting others. If only I had the answer :P
Yes.As long as a person fit's my standards, it's fine.I feel physical attraction is important and one of my standards and I do think people from other races are attractive, so yeah.
I literally give 0 shit about race. If I am happy, feel happy and if we have good sex life, I can date anyone from any race
Totally agree 💯
Hehe (:All woman from all races beautiful <3But if there is a race whose women are sexually more active and innovative in bed, I'm into that race lmao :d
I just couldn't date outside my race. I see men of any other race and I never have romantic feelings. I also know I could never be sexual with someone outside of my own race. I personally prefer white men. I don't know why I'm like this. Just am.
You probably mostly hang around people of yo "race", and feel the most comfortable wit them.. Or like you could only have a connection wit them..
I hang around many people of different races. Indian, black, coloured and white. I also feel very comfortable with other races. Especially since my some of my closest friends from back home are black girls as are some white.
Havin friends of other groups is all fine and dandy, but that could be in only a certain settin.. Also, that could be friends of only a certain gender.. Obviously you are around "White" guys waaay more than any other group.. Lol.. Not that there's anything wrong wit that.. Just that that's usually the reason people subconsciously close they mind to ther humans besides ones who look similar to them..
I'm actually around a lot of different races guys. I was born in South Africa 😂 I've been around many different races. Me wanting a white man is a personal preference. It's not because I'm around white men more. It's just a preference. Just like how anal, sex toys, open relationships are other people's preferences. I'm not ashamed of only wanting a white man. I don't see why I should force myself to want any other race when I know what I want.
Well, I can tell you about yo life.. But I've seen the trend.. When somebody is really really friends wit certain groups especially of the opposite gender, they tend to also gravitate toward them.. Like hang around them more.. Like I knew this girl from Germany who had a preference for "Black" guys and she hung around a lot of "Black" guys.. And I didn't say you should force yoself to do anything.. You gon do what you do.. I was just sayin, attraction has a lot to do wit how well you feel you can connect wit somebody as well.. It's not like you are genetically predisposed to like "White" guys.. It's all psychological..
For sure... I would treat it the same as if she were my own race. There might be some cultural differences, but race itself doesn't matter.
I'm half Caucasian American & half Asian. I'm marrying a Caucasian American soon and I've dated an African American.
Definitely... I'm particularly attracted to black women nowadays
☺☺☺my heart is warm lol
@Teteyan Haha I'm glad😋😊
Of course, race would keep me from a beautiful lady.
Meant would NOT
Keep me from a beautiful woman
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I would, but i still haven't yet found those inside of my race that have many things in common with me.I also easily seem to attract more Caucasian, and Asian for some reason
Yes because I'm attracted to every other race except black. In like Non-black men only. That's just what I'm attracted to that's my preference.
That's not a preference, that's an exclusion..
@JDavid25 that's self hate
@Hihihi23 so then I guess it's "self-hate" when a person isn't attracted to their own gender right?
Let's not label anyone for a preference. 😇💙
@Cherrylicious.. I won't say you are a self hater... But gender is biological.. And men and women compliment each other.. So that wouldn't be a great comparison.. You like what you like of course.. But I'm just pointin out that that's more of an exclusion than a preference.. You prefer everybody but "Black".. LOL..
@JDavid25 yet it's ok for a guy to like slim, curvy and petite women while excluding oversized women which is fine by the way which no one complains about.
Well, guys like all types of women really.. You got a lot of chubby chasers out there.. But, any "race" can have those body types.. That's more from variety.. But wit a race you are excludin billions of people for whatever reason.. And then it's just one group.. Not any others.. One group..
I have dated a chinese girl.But recently I sort of just want a catholic girl who shares my vision. If that girl happens to be black, white, latina, or whatever, I will just marry her lol
Oh, yes!! I just love the differences between races, it's very complex! I imagine my perfect girl to be Asian. (Some say I have a very serious case of "Yellow Fever")
Yes and i have already plenty of times but we never became official
I been through the flavors, it’s all good👍 I landed on Butter Pecan in the end😝🍦https://youtu. be/jgh10of6DKA
I’m gay it’s one thing to get a gender out it be harder to cut a race out.
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Theoretically yes. However, I do have certain purely physical preferences that pretty much exclude certain races/ethnicities/nationalities/regions.
I dont see people as different races. I just see people as people all born on planet earth 😛
Sure, I wouldn't have an issue with doing that. It's never been something that really bothered me.
I have before. The chances of that happening again are slim to none.
Yes, if I find them attractive, good personality and what I look for in a person.That said I'm not dating out side of my race to be progressive , I'd happily date my own race with no problems.
i live in a culturally diverse environment so i don't really have an issue with race , but we have to share the same values !
Yes ofc if she's a good girl... such things shouldn't be mentioned anymore... i don't know where it all started... a girl is s girl no matter where she comes from, she's a human being...
I have never dated outside my race but prefer to date white blonde taller girls because thinking of it makes me turn on. Besides white I'm open to all races but my preference is white
Mmm you were close
@DizzyDesii close to what? and did u downvote me babe?
You probably would never get a blonde girlfriend but a men can dream
@Hihihi23 how exactly u can say this? what if i marry one?
I only date someone inside my race as I have had bad luck with someone outside my race before.
Are you latina?
@Rawkstar26 Nope, but, I get that a lot, practically... throughout my whole life! Lol... I'm Thai/Lao. 😁
Oh, That's so cool. My cousin is Thai and Italian
@Rawkstar26 Oh nice👍
I don't have a preference I'm open to date all Race, Culture, Religion as long as she has a great personality than that's all matters to me. :D
I’m a black American and I definitely would, and I have!I’m very much an equal opportunity lover when it comes to ethnicity.
Absolutely, I would not limit myself to love anywhere or with any woman for any particular reason like that, I might be missing out on what is exactly intended for me.
Oh heck yes. I grew up around white boys and have mostly been attracted to white boys. My parents aren't too fond of it tho 😂
I would as long as their culture doesn't conflict with mine. Ie im conservative. Id date a black girl but not if she believes in the BLM movement.
Sure. My relationship history is like a world map 🤷♂️
Hell yeah. To be honest I would never date my own race. Guys from race are fart heads
Partially. I'm biracial, black and white. I've been with white guys so far.
That's all I seem to attract in life. My current boyfriend is Hispanic. I am African American
I don't have a race being mixed but since my preference is blue eyed blondes I feel attraction to a very limited number of women.
I have yes.. I see no reason skin color should stop me from dating someone..
Yes. I never have, but only because I've never met anyone that was interested in me.
Yes. It does feel a little weird to date another girl the same race as me because they look like my sister or cousins so it would kind of feel weird (Like dating my sister or cousins)!
Nope. I just dont find people outside my race attractive for some reason.
Outside of human race? Nope, tho I don't think we have met aliens as of right now
I'm a virgin so I'm getting zero action from any race~Mr Bails Extraordinaire
Melanin-enhanced, melanin-challenged, or anywhere in between doesn't matter to me.
Yes, I love it.I've date East Asian, Latina, Hispanic, Black, Indian, and Arabian girlsAll have been fun and great times
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