Do you think that their personality made them more attractive to you?
Somewhat. They had their quirks that made them special but I really meant the physical aspect mostly.
I see... thanks for answering :-) I'm having a hard time to be truthful. I'm healing from past trauma. I'm a domestic violence survivor and I suffer bad from PTSD. I never actually been in a committed relationship or felt wanted. I'm trying to understand attraction. I was told I was fat and ugly and was abused. They led me on and broke my heart... said they respected my values of waiting till marriage for sex, but lied. I've been friendzoned a lot, but I'm told I'm pretty by a lot people not including these men I dated. I'm confused on why I keep getting rejected and hurt to the max. They make me feel totally undesirable and compare me to other women.Sorry for my venting.
There is no need to screwup urself. UR Not a thing to rotten down or beaten up,,, wait for a guy where he will not see u as a thing and see as a goddess.Untill then enjoy ur little life happily
Thanks for your kind words :-)
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What if she good looking and is kind, but does not have sex appeal. Do you think guys will reject her
What is sex appeal? Good looking and kind sounds great to me!
Sex appeal... Flirtatious and outgoing.
Sultry, secretive, and shy definitely have sex appeal too! A nice personality in everyday life has its own sex appeal. Don't hold yourself to someone else's standard.
I'm trying to understand attraction because guys sure haven't treated me right. I don't look like an instagram model, but I am in good shape. They have compared me to other girls and chased after "bad bitches." They claimed that I didn't attract them and nobody would want me because I lacked sex appeal... they made fun of my walk, my soft-spoken voice, etc. I feel really undesirable because although I've been told I look really pretty by many people, I don't know what I'm doing wrong to be rejected horribly. I was even physically assaulted. You feel me... it's hard to understand and be accepting of yourself if you've been told your wrong. I don't have exactly have a line of men chasing after me or any guy hitting me up. I'm not the popular choice and get overlooked or mistreated. I've been called wife material, but that I feel is a soft blow of rejection that men give me.Sorry for venting and answering my questions :-)
Hang out with nicer guys. Volunteer with some group or get involved in other activities. Change your crowd might be helpful.
Yeah I'll try... kinda started loosing hope. Thanks :-)