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Yes. Poorly fitted clothes aren't a dealbreaker to me, though if we get closer I might suggest that they might look better in something that fits them more nicely, or compliment their clothes that fit better than their others. I do think it would be nice if they at least wore appropriate clothes for certain situations, as I've been pretty embarrassed by being in nice places with people (not just dates, friends as well) who didn't look presentable. I'm talking looking like they just got out of bed, unwashed/uncombed hair, wrinkled and inappropriate clothes for the occasion, usually a shirt with some really stupid saying on it, etc. I actually have a male best friend who loves to dress in clothes that are too big for him and insists he wears an extra large when really, he'd look best in a medium. He wore a nicely fitted pair of jeans one day and I complimented how much I liked them and told him he should consider getting some more pants like them. We've been shopping together as well and I've pointed out the sizes I think suit him best, and I've flat out told him some of his shirts were way too big on him and he'd look better in something that fit him.
It wouldn't bother me too much but my sister would tease about that.
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For me, personally, I LOVE a girl who can dress. However, I am willing to overlook how a girl dresses if the vibe is right between us. Besides... fashion can always be changed up and you can teach someone how to dress better. So, it's not a deal breaker.
I would date a girl wearing a potato sack. I don't give a fuck about clothes or shoes or jewelry either. If a girl is an evil bitch, the best dress in the world won't make her any nicer.
Depends. Most likely though, yes. I think how we dress is an obvious example of how we present ourselves in the world.. I think to pay no concern to that, would be telling the world you don't care about much, and certainly not how anyone perceives you or how you even perceive yourself. I think as we age, it becomes a matter of respect as well. It's important to be aware of how to dress for different types of occasions, personal, work, celebrations, achievements, losses, different cultured places.. it can be extremely rude and disrespectful to show up to someones wedding in baggy jeans and a button down (attempt at formalwear) stained short sleeve shirt.. going the extra mile to consider how your presenting yourself will show that you care about yourself- which is a much more. desirable and respectable quality then it's opposite. I also think it shows a level of maturity. A dated a guy for a while who was nearing 30 and shopped at the same places his mom would shop for him at when he was in grade school. I'm talking skater shoes, (apparently the dirtier and more worn-in the better!) Skate brand tee's, baggy jeans - all from the same shop - backwards etnies baseball cap and all, and - let's just say there were numerous occasions I would go to see my little cousin (age 13) and he would be wearing the exact same clothing as my boyfriend who was 15 years his senior.. not embarrassing on his part- embarrassing on my boyfriend's for sure! Did he care? Nope. That's what bugged me the most. He should have..
Yes and no...Do they know and either just lost/weight and haven't adjusted their wardrobe yet? YesDo they just not care what they look like? NoMy mom is either delusional or apathetic when it comes to clothing, we can't figure it out. She's about a size 16 but all the clothing she buys is hugely unflattering. She buys low rise pants and tops too short so her belly is always having out, in public at family parties. Everywhere, its embarrassing and she doesn't care how bad she looks. My sister just lost weight so her clothes are too big and she's updating her wardrobe. Huge difference there, pride in appearance
God no! 🤮 I have self-respect, so I would like a woman to show that respect by dressing respectably as I would do for her!I asked a girl from work out for Valentine’s Day. She couldn’t do it. But aside from her uniform, I only saw how she dressed on nights out which was nice and classy, as I like it. However, in the weeks after Valentine’s Day, I saw her come into work but just to shop. And omg, if I hadn’t known her, I would’ve sworn she spent her nights sleeping on a bench the way she dressed 🤢 I’d never been so relieved to have been rejected by a girl before 😅 I wouldn’t want to be caught up with a girl so tasteless and slovenly, even on lazy days 🙈🙈🙈
im not like her. I wear quality, nice, elegant clothes, dresses. I told you, I have a few elegant, good quality dresses that i bought with my saved pocket money. I can't buy new elegant dresses because I don't have money right now😔but If I was rich, you know the dresses I wanted to buy. i sent you with messages a few days ago. you know i have a good taste about wear & fashion😉
@celin98 When we’re together, we will be wealthy enough for all the dresses and other outfits you desire. I’ll be your style advisor too, but you can say no to whatever you don’t like 😉👗👠
If it gets too revealing, I can see undertones. Controversial statement, but based in evidence linked in events I've personally witnessed. When the Jeans hit the cheeks and the boobs start to peek, the eyes will start to seek for a different guy to _That said, I love modesty. Its my most attractive choice. Also shows that they can get down with comfy stuff and topics. Like what kind of pizza would you be if you were one?
I gotta get new clothes hahaEverything is either too small or too big 😂I put in muscle and i just took my brothers old stuff which is too big for meI just don't feel like spending money on clothes. I like seeing my bank account have a coma 😂
Nope. Women are on their best behavior early in dating so if she’s a little sloppy then she’s going to be a homeless lady wearing 3 coats at the same time later on
As long as he dresses for the right occasion. I am okay. Guys I dated seem to care a lot more about their looks than me.
Its tough it may make an impression but I hope I would take time to get to know her though thee to tight or small look may trigger a trashy alarm
My boyfriends best friend constantly tells me to do something about his style of clothing. I hope this says enough xD
If the poor dressing was not too far off, it would not be a problem. If the dressing was enough off to look odd and out of place, then probably not.
It depends how poorly, but in general I have no fashion sense, and because it's hard to find clothes that fit me I'm probably dressing more poorly then the date
I don't care about how they dress unless its like how most guys dress here. Shirts down to their knees, shorts, and sneakers. It looks stupid.
I would be turned off by their oversized or undersized clothes but I can’t say it would definitely stop me from dating them. When I like someone a lot, it’s pretty hard for them to do anything that would turn me off.
Nope. Being physically attracted to someone also requires their dress sense to be decent. She doesn't need to be like Paris Hilton over the top but should care enough about herself to represent herself well to the rest of the world
If he looks a bit like a dork I think that can actually look quite ;-)
I prefer someone who dresses for the occasion, like no suits for hikes and no hoodies for fancy dinners.
Yeah, clothes isn’t the biggest issue with a person, and if they look good in it then it doesn’t really matter
Depends on if i like or love them. It is that simple. Just hope it is not pajamas and sweatpants everywhere.
I'm okay if he wears clothes that are a big baggy for him as long as they're clean and he doesn't look like a thug... if I meet my perfect match then I think I can overlook his clothes.
I am more interested in the person wearing the clothes. The clothes themselves don't mean much to me.
I like when a guy wears an oversized hoodie or shirt, but have to be able to wear a suit on special occasions.
sure why not i dont care about he dress its all about personality and also beauty dress is just something you can solve later in case you dont like
Depends. Is it just that I don't find his style appealing or he literally wears dirty wrinkly clothes? I could live with someone who doesn't have the same kind of style as mine, as long as it's not drastically different and he still dresses neatly.
In most cases, I'd date enough to at least find out the "why".
Sure! Fashion isn't what's important, it's who's under the clothes! (That sounded... wrong.)
No. I appreciate someone who puts effort into their appearance. I value the aesthetics of life very highly. A well put together woman is a sight to behold.
Yeah, if I like the person. I would prefer something modest though.
Proper dressing is one of several factors that are important to me.
No I won’t. Because I dress well and he would just drag me down
As long as it's clean I'm fine. I don't care about fashion.
Depends on the occasion and also if she have a bad taste for fashion I will help and try to improve.
Clothes dont matter, nor money, it's the personality that's the key
How many girls have slid into your DMs with that? 😂 I'm guessing none?
Actually you'd be surprised
Men don’t care but we all know women are superficial as fuck so they would
Its another for girls to fix, so i dont see why they wouldn't like that
No, I do care about how I'm dressed and my man should do the same
No. I like men with a sense of style.xx~ Mrs Manson
Sure. I don't really care that much about how a girl dresses when it's not too weird
I've dated girls whose clothes were too small because they had gained weight recently.
I dress poorly all the time to avoid dating, so I guess no people generally won’t
I don't even consider that. How they look without the wrappers is what is important.
All girls do. Wait until one steals your shirt.
I would that’s an easy fix
If someone wore scantily, I might avoid them
depends on if they wire nice ugly clithes
If they bad af naked nah who cares
Idgaf unless its slut wear
Yes. I don´t care what he wears.
Yeah I would, since I usually do lol.
Yes because looks and clothes should not matter
I don't think I could handle it.
I dress ugly so I don’t care.
No, not me.
No. That's a turn off for me.
I see here women saying we have poor standards... For us standards don't go on that way... Narcissistic, or gold-digger is much more red flag that bad dressed.
A simple: No.
I don't care
No I wouldn't
I met people like that and they were undatable.
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