I didn't wait around for him when he didn't make concret plans. So we made plans to hang out Thursday or Friday. He said he would let me know about Thursday. Thursday come and he texts me at 7pm asking what I was doing. I said "I'm chilling with my friend and me and her are getting dinner". He said "I've had a laid back day and I feel I've wasted the day cause I'm spending it alone". I said "I told you I was free, should've gotten up with me". He said "that's why he did text me". I said "I guess I like to plan things in advance, how does tommorow at 7pm sound?". He said "I go with the flow entirely too much. I should be able to do that". ... was he recognizing that he was wrong about not making a stick plan with me and did i challenge him in a good way?