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What should I do in this situation?

long Story short I’ve been casually seeing this guy or 5 months, he had to move. He said he really liked me and whatnot. After he moved communication went down hill. And now I’m just kind of confused. I purchased guitar picks for him as a gift for the next time I was supposed to go visit him. He canceled. All my girlfriends say just let him go. I’m to the point where I’m thinking they’re right. But I don’t want to throw away money and they were intended for him. Would it be a nice gesture to just mail them with a short letter? Something on the lines of hope all is well with you, these are for you, wanted to gift them to you in person but it doesn’t look like it’s going to happen, I don’t want to feel like I’m being a bother, wish him the best of luck in life. Is that a good idea?
What should I do in this situation?
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