There is this girl at my school, she is so amazing, she is pretty and kind and she doesn't talk much but after talking to her I like her a lot more than I did before, she is so funny and has such a bright personality, I want to ask her out. I am going to lose weight and get a job first, and I am so close to meeting my weight goal and I am almost old enough for a job. But when I get one how do I ask bet out? I don't want to make it some grand gesture thing in front of everyone because I don't want to embarrass her, and I don't want her to feel obliged to say yes because any relationship that starts for the wrong reason is guaranteed to end. I don't want that. So shy girls, how would you like to be asked out and where should I take her for the first date if there is one?