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It's fine, there's nothing wrong with wanting to hang out with your friend!But why are you hiding that from your boyfriend? Unless you feel guilty or think something will happen with said friend, you shouldn't have to. Usually if I'm seeing someone, I make sure to tell him about my friends so he won't feel intimidated, jealous, or think they're interested in me outside of a friendship. If you're hiding your friendship from your boyfriend, that's not a good sign.
Yes, it is wrong because you are seeking male companionship that you can't get from your girl friends and your boyfriend who is not available. You are starting on the path to cheating.
Why is it a secret?
You should be transparent with your boyfriend. I guess it is ok to hang out with a guy friend by yourself but unless he's buddies with your boyfriend it might get dicey. There would have to be zero chemistry or the guy would have to be gay for a boyfriend to be 100% ok with a girlfriend hanging out with another guy alone. Just my opinion.
It's OK to hang out with your male friend without telling your boyfriend every time. However, if you find you need to hide that you hang out with him, something is amiss.
Nope. I would end the relationship over something like that.
But why? It's not like we're doing something sexual?
1. Keeping it from your boyfriend means you already know it is a problem. Trust is the most important thing in a relationship and you are breaking that trust.2. It is inappropriate for someone in a relationship to spend time with an opposite gender person/ "friend" one on one.
No reason to not tell your boyfriend. The guy is your friend so just give your boyfriend a heads up.
Friends usually wanna hang out with each other... you not wanting to tell your boyfriend is what's making this seem suspicious.
Are you going to fuck him? If not, then OK.
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