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Love Triangle? If I don’t pursue may I regret it?

so i like this girl, let’s call her Jane. I’ve been texting Jane lately and she seems interested enough in me to keep the conversation going. However we have a mutual friend with whom she speaks with. Let’s call him Joel. We have a business meet every week and I sometimes see them enjoying a nice chat. I believe they might have feelings for one another but I don't know, I'd like to believe they are just good friends. But tonight after the meeting I saw Joel walk Jane to her car. I kinda wanna give it up, for Pete’s sake I’m buying a house, drive a nice car, and have a promising future and I’m only 20y/o. I don’t want to sound snobbish or materialistic but I feel I could just keep growing by myself and I don’t need anyone By my side. but at the same time I know she’d be my perfect match which is why I want to believe they are nothing more than friends. Should I keep texting her and see how it goes? Should I cut things off? Let me know what you think and I’ll go from there...
Love Triangle? If I don’t pursue may I regret it?
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