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All the rules should be discussed with the other person. It's not universal. In my opinion, and the way I like these things to go is:1. We are exclusive.2. Try not to get feelings for the other person.3. Don't stop looking for a significant other if that is what you want. About point 1: it may be just all fun and play, but I don't want to risk getting something from some rando.About point 2: If u still develop feelings for the person u have this type of relationship, you should tell them, if they are not interested, u end it there. If they are. Great.About point 3: Just cuz ur in that relationship and it's exclusive, doesent mean it will last forever, and the more it goes one, the more probable for one side to develop feeling for the other, which more often than not will not be healthy. So you should look for a person who you can love and that loves you, and reduce the probability of a one sided love that hurts like a motherfucker.
This is how I see different levels of sexual relationships: -One night stand - you meet up have a fun night and part ways. Fuck buddy - you meet for sex regular have no ties or need to be faithful to each other. Friends with benefits - you meet up as friends potentially do things that friends do with the benefits of enjoying having sex too no strict ties if your faithful to each other is to be defined. Boyfriend and girlfriend - standard relationship meeting up or being together doesn't mean your having sex, both of you are faithful and potentially moving on to marriage.Marriage - 100% faithful sex is probably a distant memory.Divorce - someone fucked up
For me, when I had a friends with benefits, the rules were that we always have sex with a condom. It is either with a condom or no penetration at all. He is allowed to make out with me before sex, but after the sex is over, no more kissing. No cuddling either. And no romantic gestures as well. We are just fucking and having fun, that's about it lol
Sounds about right. Smart lady👍
They are what you set down. Here are some of mine There will be no children coming from me and don’t expect a relationship If my dogs don’t like you, I don’t like you If you do anything I don’t want, you will suffer
Easy to follow rules.
What if the guy is really good in bed like makes you orgasm every time
That’s fine with me lol but he still follows the rules. I don’t need him for good sex.
If it was just sex you would want it to be good tho
Agreed. That’s the point of sex. But if a fuck buddy doesn’t follow my rules, he can leave. I can get good sex elsewhere.
Do you usally have a few fuckbuddies on the go
I’ve fucked everyone in my congregation. Lol so yes, I can scratch my itch if need be.
Do you choose the bigger cocks over smaller ones if its just for sex
Doesn’t matter to me as long as he has the stamina and I can feel it lol
Inbox me so i can ask somthing more in detail
Dude what the hell is wrong with you, seriously.
Well, here are my ground rules:·Protection or birth control is mandatory. Anything other than a yes to this will result in an immediate no to friends with benefits.·There will be no children that are to come from this.·Don't expect a relationship from me.·Respect my boundaries and I'll respect yours.·No means no. If I don't want to do it at the moment you want to, then we don't do it. Same for you. If you don't want to, then we won't.·Check if I'm okay with certain things before trying them. This includes different kinds of sex, kinks, roleplays, and fantasies.And one last rule.·If you follow the rules above, I'll make sure you have fun... ;)
Friends who also have casual no relationship sex. No jealousy no labels no rules like a boyfriend girlfriend situation. Sex is synonymous with exercise like jogging together. It tends to be difficult in practice as one party can easily develop feelings after repeated visits to the bed
The rules are what you make them.Every pair has their own rules. Some don't even make rules, but I seriously suggest doing it. Some common rules could be:Always use protection.Never in publicDon't tell othersWe're not exclusiveNo butt stuffKeep good hygiene (This is actually very important)etc.
I live with my boyfriend who started as a friend with benefits, so I guess I broke them :)
you make the rules. for me the rules are: not fucking anybody else while we have the friends with benefits going and telling if there's more affection going on than just friends with benefits.
Communication and a sense of loyalty slightly to make the sex more enjoyable and beautiful in the euphoric way
I was never good at it. The better I got at it the more I lost my ability to be attached to anyone. Not a fan.
Basically sex with no strings attached aka feelings. Perhaps Relationship with no commitment and no label?
friends with benefits is immoralit's a relationship, without a labeland ought to be illegal, in my opinion
why do you think so?
Great argument, 10/10.Friends with benefits is a great setup, just gotta do it right
Honesty. No matter how many partners. You should always be aware of other partners.
It's very hard to stay friends once sex happens. One of the two then will burn
One that either person could leave at any time and have no hard feelings
Is this about sex or something else? I want to be sure
sex, spending time together and having fun
Respect boundaries. Don't ask for explanations, don't get jealous, don't fall in love.
Well not sure on rules... you give him sex he gives you gifts
Put what your in it for and communication. Don’t be jealous.
@ANNALISA99 good advice lol. have u ever had a fwb?
I do she fun.
@ANNALISA99 your lesbian? cool can i message u i have questions about friends with benefits lol
I am Bi actually.
@ANNALISA99 nice! can i message u i followed you but u have to follow back to private message
With woman no chance of pregnancy in this lift time anyways. Plus I don’t do the sleeping around thing especially with guys.
I'd the only rule should be: don't do it, it rarely works the way it's intended.
1. Don't2. If you do, don't be surprised when drama follows.
To be honest rules are decided before begining the friends with benefits scenes, if u haven't ur a free bird
Don’t get emotionally invested or attached
Just Sex No Strings, No Feelings Just Sex
It depends on the two people involved
Its whatver you mutually agree upon.
It's for people who get easily attached.
You don’t talk about it.
Just sex. No emotions
Don't fuck your friends. Thats all.
Rule number one - don't do it.
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