It would depend on the girl. I'd try to keep the topics light and talk about whatever I felt was relevant. Asking what they are looking for is a decent idea. I'd also consider asking them their interests or about an interest that you know about that you genuinely want to know more about. Maybe you just have curiosity in their interest or you have the same type of interest in it as well.I would not script an opening conversation though. I'm really good at talking so I would try to get them to talk.
Over text:I'll say something flirty and relate it to their profile somehow. At minimum start with something related to their profile that isn't boring or too much effort needed. If you're really stuck, mentioning something food related will work a lot more than most other topics.The idea isn't to make much small talk. Get a feel for what they're like, stalk any profiles you can find of them, and ask to meet once you've got a little momentum with them
I dont. I match with so many unless they strike up a decent convo then they get skipped and passed over. Next
I´m not on any dating apps, but if I was, I would ask if they like to watch tv. If yes, instant block!
I hate watching tv and I hate people watching tv and getting fat
@JustJen just because people watch TV doesn't mean they are fat.
@MoogMoog The more you watch tv the unhealthier your lifestyle.
@JustJen lmfao craziest shit I've ever heard.
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I'd ask about their interests. If there are no common interests, I'm going to pass.
I don't ask questions on dating apps. That means a girl has to think. When she has msgs from 100 other guys she can't be bothered thinking. You'll lose her if she has to do that. First goal is to get her laughing; get her interested and engaged in you so you can get her on a date with you. Then you can ask questions. Just not too many. The focus has to be on having fun and joking about so you know she has a personality.
Golden advice. You can ask a question if it's flirty or doesn't require too much thinking but gets their attention (aka not wyd or how are are you)
@MostPaloney23 I dunno man questions tend not to be flirty, usually boring shit that most people ask cause they can't think of anything else to say. Just look at all the answers on this question lol
I only ask a question that's flirty if I can link it to the profile and it's semi original. But yeah most things that are flirty are questions not statements
Statements not questions
I ask them something that was on my profile. Because just about every woman i've met didn't even tead my profile.And i'd really like to know why these women are wanting to meet me when they haven't made any effort to find out what i'm about.
I don't know what's your favorite sports team, or where are you from, or what do you think of this music, or thats a cool shirt or I like your awesome name ▫️▫️▫️▫️ but those apps to me are a waste of time
What ever pops up in your mind apart of stereotypical phrases like whether, work, how much someone is worth un less you're pulling a joke.
Would you give up cellphones and internet and live in the middle of no where
If you could be any kind of animal what would you be and why
It varies but something deep and soulful along the lines of what’s their fav cereal. I mean if you can’t agree on cereal what’s the chances for a successful relationship anyway?
What do you do for work, Just to make conversation
I usually ask something causual about their profile description. Trying to engage in a conversation that way.
I am bad in life and good in bed do you still wanna date me
To have them send a picture of themselves so you know they aren’t catdishin
Where are the bodies hidden?
Have u ever been to Uranus? ("yo anus")
Write the last thing they want to read
I usually ask how they are doing
If you're 5 feet flat dont talk to me
Whats your body count
best thing I've heard all day😂 thank you
You actually know these on the profile usually.
@JP_Man Just making a retro joke. Back when you asked that on online chatrooms lol
So , what is your opinion on sandwiches?
Ever been in prison?
@Twenty2 right to the point
Daang girl can we foreplay a little lol
How tall are u, lol
How you doing?
how are you?
Are they real?
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