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Depends why they dislike him... if they can't really tell me why, then I dont care. But if they see possible red flags I dont see because I'm blinded by love, I would try to figure out whats wrong and would care what they say
I wouldn't because if they dont have a reason not to like that person then they are not really your friends
What if they feel you can do better it’s not a direct insult but speaks to the quality of the person chosen at the time?
How long have those people been your friend.. Have they ever gave u advice about a bf? Does he make you happy, do you have any relationship problems?
I'd listen to their concerns and determine if they were valid.WeirdShyQuietUnattractiveLameHe doesn't like to hang out with usThe above are all attributes that don't factor into my decision on continuing the relationship.The below are attributes that would factor in:If he hits on themIf he behaves violently toward them or makes violent jokes about them or women in generalIf they catch him cheating on meBasically if they catch any seriously negative quality that he was trying to hide from me... abusive tendencies, etc.
If your friends felt you were dating down/ you could do better you would not be relatively bothered?
No. If he makes me happy then that's what matters. My friends thought I was dating down when I started dating my now husband. Mostly because he was younger than me and they thought he was weird because he didn't go to our school and, obviously, I didn't pick him from our pool of guy friends lolBut... now we're happily married. I may be offended they said I was dating down but not enough to end a relationship in which I am otherwise satisfied.
If you don't take their opinion a bit seriously you're a moron
It would bother me on the most microscopic level but ultimately its my relationship and not theirs.
What if you were to lose said friends all together for said relationship?
If they dont stick with you because of who you associate with then they were never your friend to begin with. They should be there for you, not anyone else.
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