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Why do people keep falling in love with me?

I am a shy girl who is utterly repulsed by romance or sex with such a hatred, but people are constantly falling in love with me.

I have severe abandonment issues, along with many mental health issues. But i am constantly telling people what they want to hear. I change my personality based on what fits their needs due to it being a defense mechanism. And i hate myself so much for it. I hardly have the guts to reject someone and i can't help but mimic others personalities.

But are people particularly looking for those with their personalities? I've never been good with emotions and i don't fully understand. Do they just like the good way i make them feel? Why do they keep falling for me?

Thanks so much!~
Why do people keep falling in love with me?
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