I really like him and we get along so well after talking online and he wants to drive 3 hours to meet me on Friday but I’m very insecure. He’s super athletic and I’m in the process of losing weight. I’m considered barely a “healthy” weight but my thighs are big and I’m out of shape. I never wear shorts because of this. And it’s going to be 90 degrees. I don’t want to look like a fool wearing jeans. I’ve been literally spending days trying to find something to wear but I feel insecure in everything and I’m thinking of just skipping.