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"curvy" as in "has curves" or as in "overweight but we're all trying to soften the blow to avoid hurting her feelings"? I don't know how girl's clothes are sized so I don't really know what a size 9 means. My girlfriend isn't overweight by any measure but has a healthy amount of fat, boobs not too big or too small, an hour glass figure and a really nice ass with thick thighs. I love the way she looks. Unless you're overweight I wouldn't worry too much.
For reference - size 9 is a men's small in the UK but it's a medium in the US
Yeah I looked it up and on the women who wore a size 9 it looked borderline overweight. They might have just been too short for it though. Women's weight distribution isn't as cut and dry as it is for guys either so things like body type and where fat is stored are also somewhat necessary for making an accurate opinion.
I'm only 5ft and weigh 142 lbs. I'm from the US. I'm a overweight for my height, but I have a big booty, thick thighs and small waist. Most of my weight is on my booty. I have a baby face for my age. I'm trying to loose more weight tho. I'm Latina, so most black and Latino men love their women a little thicker. I've attracted most black and Latino. I don't like being skinny, but I'm working on my stomach area and I'm making improvements. I worry a lot about my appearance because because I was bullied a lot. The last guy I was with called me ugly and fat and that no guy would want me. He physically abused me as well. I'm just trying to understand attraction. I have really low self-esteem even when people tell me I'm beautiful inside and out. You feel me? Thanks for responding and sorry for the long venting
You sound pretty similar to my girlfriend, actually. She got bullied a lot in highschool for that too. Not many 16 year olds come equiped with child bearing hips, but the thing to realize about bullies (especially female ones) is they often bully people who they perceive as threatening in one way or another. In this case, if girls bullied you about your hip/thigh region it's possible they felt threatened and bullied you so they'd have a better chance getting a guy, or so they'd just feel better in their inferiority. There are plenty of guys who will not only find your body type attractive, but also preferable.
I appreciate that🙂 I'm starting to realize that every guy has their preference. I was brainwashed to believe differently about myself
No prob. Also, while it's true that every guy has different preferences, there are still quite a few things that the overwhelming majority of guys prefer. I've seen many fall into the trap of thinking "everyone has different preferences, therefore regardless of who you are or how you look there's someone who's into you, so no need to worry about appealing to others and just do what works best for you". That's a logical fallacy that's all too common today and I hope you don't make that mistake. For instance, the vast majority of guys will take one look at Tess Holiday and go "yuck get that land mass away from me" or say something similar at least. Just keep in mind that there are still plenty of ways to be that repel the greatest portion of the opposite sex, even with the variability of preference.
Yeah you're right... thanks for the helpful insight 😊
You're welcome 😊
Some guys are yes. 🌺
Thanks for mho 💗
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Yea many guys including me like curvy body. You need some personality with that too. But i ad 2 curvy girlfriend. You got stuff to hold😉
some are, some aren't.generally, poor or average wage jobbed men, like them more, than rich men. it's not exactly PROVEN but, there's a theory that, rich men, generally like thinner, flat chested women
Probably not very happy I guessing... those rich people may have money but that’s about it
Eh, then why is trump, the president?
my point is, it really DOES matter when it comes to money, how men prefer their women. GENERALLY
Well that’s stupid. What does it matter what a woman looks like because of how much money you have.
thats just how it is, unfortunatelytrump is president, until we remove him
I’ll be waiting for that day
i hope so too
Personally? No. I'm not into thicker women, I prefer slim/fit body types.
Some are, some others aren't.Just be honest about it and don't be ashamed.
Size 9 is curvy now? A lot of people would consider that underweight.
Depends if they are to extreme its a no for me
goddessly amazing perfection
Yeah, but guys aren't attracted to fat bodies
Definitely, love them
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