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Yes it is and I am getting good at it.It took a while for me to be able to get my reputation of a person that does not like to be hit on by guys and avoid contact with those that approach me for that purpose.When I go out with other girls, I am kind of proud to be the only one that is now not addressed by guys but overlooked as those guys will hit on those poor girls instead.Of course, that only works in the regular area I am going out but I surely hope to be able to extend my reputation to other areas of town based on negative gossip.The feeling is quite rewarding.
Of course it's possible to be that self-defeating, but you can always U-turn from that.
I don't want to u turn really. I am who I am and if by total accident I do meet someone who "fits with minimal effort" I know I'm on to something.
YES! Oh my gosh, yes. Learn to figure out who you are in multiple different contexts. It's important to know how to be yourself, but then also figure out who you are in a friendship, and who you are as a lover, and who you are as a coworker, etc...
I think the problem you have is what we call narcissism.
What like getting into a routine that works for me and not really seeing a benefit to changing it?
If you're not gonna make time for people, they're not going to want to hang out with you.
I make time I mean more along the lines of a live in partner.
If people aren't hanging out with you, you're the problem. I don't know what it is, and I doubt you'd believe it if anyone told you.
Yeah I'm an ass tbh. I'm deep set in routines. Could be that I need to try compromise more. :).
thats not called finding oneself, its called not attempting to better yourself
Yeah of course it is!
That's the goal
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