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Another way is to give yourself a chance. What I mean is that as long as you're pining after him, you're not allowing yourself a chance with any other guys out there. You can have the self-torture (and its diminishing returns) or have someone, but only if you let yourself go for something real. It's ok to let part of your heart ache and not the whole thing. Take your mind and heart off the past and what could have been and instead look forward to what could be. I relate to the whole love-from-afar / person doesn't know you exist thing, so I'm not just throwing up words.
First off, are you absolutely sure he feels that way, or you just think he does? Like have you tried flirting or teasing him to see how he reacts?If you're sure he's not interested-Distance yourself from him as much as possible. The more you see or talk to him, the harder it's going to be getting over him. Find ways to distract yourself: anything from doing your favorite hobbies, to hanging out with your friends. Hopefully they will take your mind off of him.
I'm not 100% sure that he doesn't like me that way, but I'm almost sure. It's long distance for a start. And he has used the word friend with me, like in a sentence such as, "thanks friend". How would I flirt with him? Or is there no point? Some guys are just really friendly, and they're nice to everyone.
Cut that person out of your life for a period is one solution.
Understand it's just feelings your head has created. This is a woman's realm.Find a new guy.
A woman's realm? Bro, this is an insecure person's realm.
@LtJackass - Uh, no, this a woman's realm. A woman can fall in love with a man without ever even meeting him - it's simply fabricated in her own mind. I used to say this tongue-in-cheek because I thought it was so ridiculous, but it's been proven on here over and over - even this Q is a perfect example. Women connect emotionally.Guys connect physically. This isn't to say men don't have emotions, no, it's just that without a physical connection the relationship isn't cemented. A woman simply creates feelings in her head. It is ALWAYS about the FEELZ.
What you're describing is called a crush. Everyone has them.
@LtJackass - Uh, no, what I'm describing is how a woman's brain works.
Men women are a lot more the same than they are different. They just have slight temperamental differences.
They're not aliens bro.
@LtJackass - No, they are vastly different. That they are equal and the same is the lie of the FI, of feminism. It is patently false.
I didn't say equal but same. I said more the same than different.
@LtJackass - You're a confused young man. Give yourself some time to actually grow up. This spoon-feeding is for the birds.
I trust the words of Dr. Jordan Peterson more than a mgtow old man.
@LtJackass Then follow that. IDGAF. Now fuck off and go bother somebody else.
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