So many guys act like girls don't have to do anything to get dates, which is maddeningly false. They'll say things like "Oh, she can just wait and have guys come to her," but chances are, in order to even look hot enough to begin with she's had to put at least an extra 30 minutes into her hair and makeup and outfit (which she's probably also spent extra money on). She then has to think about flirting strategies, and try to work up the courage to make prolonged, sexy eye contact with the guys she likes (which is DEFINITELY not easy. Why don't most guys recognize how much courage this takes?). If he isn't into it, he'll basically look away like she's some kind of plague and HOW DARE she check him out (seriously, why do guys think we never get rejected?). And then once she's got a guy's attention she's got to worry about whether he's a safe person/isn't going to hurt her physically or assault her (most men can easily overpower her). Seriously, if I were a man, dating would be so much easier. Literally all you have to do is wait for a girl's flirting signals, and then BAM, go ask her out and you're guaranteed a date. Sounds like bliss honestly. Why don't more guys have empathy for the fact that women struggle with dating too?