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Does love and/or attraction grow on you, or is it instant?

Very long story short, I met this guy online and we talked for a week before meeting in person. Within the three weeks that we were talking and dating, we had sex twice. However, I don’t feel a connection with this guy, even after we had sex (I’m aware we had sex too soon). I don’t get butterflies when I look at him, I don’t feel all warm inside when I look into his eyes, but I also don’t get a bad feeling from him.

However, there’s this guy who comes into the place where I work (I work at a coffee shop) and whenever I look into his eyes, I get butterflies and I feel warm inside. Even though we haven’t really spoken, he makes me smile. I don’t feel this way with the other guy. *This guy and I have mutual friends, but I’m not sure if I should ask around about him, or just let things happen naturally
Does love and/or attraction grow on you, or is it instant?
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