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there's two problems:A lot of guys are getting away with that, so that is what they expect. No different than training a dog to eat the Filet Mignon at the table... they will come back for more next time and not enjoy the dog food in the bowl. Not that you are dog food... I'm just making an analogy. Lets blame women here as well, but you can't manage and control other women.What you are projecting speaks volumes, and the projection comes from your sub conscious mind established in childhood. If that does not have good father figure and esteem building, then time to work on that part of you. That will help draw better quality people. You have to project value and hold it and in a way, manage the brats to get what you want. It's kinda a game. you may have to adjust your target a bit, who you are interested in, give a chance. Go for different types of guys than normal and see how goes. A lot of guys are immature at these ages.
Ok thank you so much
Well, there are a few things you can do to change this1. Dress modestly2. Make your intentions known early on (Express that you dont hook up)3. Avoid places where guy intend to pick up girls, bars, clubs etcIf you like a guy, but thinks he only wants to hook up with you, test him by, asking how he feels about meeting parents or invite him to church
Thanks for the advice.
You should look for less scummy sex craved perverts and more for people who actually want to date and have a relationship. Tinder is obviously a no-go for those type of relationships, go outside and look for men you think are cool and try to talk about common interests and topics. If you let them flock to you, you are more likely to run into one of those pump e'm and dump e'm guys.
you are still quite young so whilst you may be looking for more, many guys your age are still in the mind set of shagging everything that moves.
I’ve never been in a relationship and I feel like I’m missing out.
its not a race
You probably give off a vibe that you're only into hookups.
How do I stop giving off that vibe?
You cut off cheap come-ons and force men to interact with you on a more personal level. Require guys to talk to you like a human and spend some time getting to know you as a person. That will weed out the players and the guys who just want to get their dicks wet.
Good point thank you
Where are you finding these guys?
Online and irl
Not if you are going to remain anonymous.
What do you mean
Like not reveal who you are to us.
I don't think that is true. Why do you think that
Every guy that I have talked to only wanted to hit No one wants me seriously
Well that only ties down the site your on. Most men get on sites for that soul purpose so please don't take offense to it Dear
This applies to real life as well. I can’t seem to win
Just be patient. The right one will show up eventually until then. Have fun
They only want to fuck you?
Yes it’s a shame
Do you fuck a lot?
That’s none of your business sir.
Thanks but no.
I want to be in a serious relationship...
Just message me if you want advice or whatever
Ok thanks follow me
you gotta follow me first i don't know your name lol
I don’t want that...
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