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I have been and have always stayed faithful. Honestly, I don't understand people who get drunk and want to fuck random people to begin with. I get horny sometimes, sure, but I have someone who I can go home and sleep with - I don't need to fuck anyone else. Even if I couldn't, I wouldn't cheat. The only time I see this as being possible is if you're blackout drunk and someone essentially rapes you.
Yes, I've been completely wasted while married, and even faced the temptation of flirty attractive women. It's pretty easy for me to resist. All I have to do is look down at my wedding ring and remember I have a loving wife at home. I never get so drunk that I forget that, and I've been pretty drunk.
For me the prospect of cheating, if I'm very blunt, is like not only does it contradict some of my biggest values (values are ultimately about resisting temptations for me), but if I put those values aside, it's still too damned tedious going on dates and dealing with all that. I dated plenty when I was single and it took me ages to find one I was as compatible with as my wife. I doubt I'd find that with some random flirty girl when I'm drunk. So it's not like I'm not tempted, but I don't have to think much to remember all this, even with my brain operating at like 10% capacity from being totally smashed.
Besides that, just about every sexual experience I've had when totally smashed wasn't very good. My equipment tends to go numb down there. :-D
I'm also kind of weird about sex. When I was single, I was kind of promiscuous but I never wanted a one night stand. For a sexual experience to be great, I need to feel like I'm really falling madly in love with a girl, and to fall madly in love requires a fantasy of being together forever and all that (no matter how quickly it was formed). I don't think I can form that fantasy these days with anyone besides my wife. And I never enjoyed meaningless sex without that fantasy very much -- it always turned out disappointing (like "masturbating with someone else's body").
Hmmmm yeah. Me and my boyfriend were having a conversation about this. And he said even me or him could end up in a situation where we do something cheating wise if where really drunk: I’m like you and believe I never would but he seems to think there is some form of possibility as your completely out of your head and someone can ‘take you’ he said especially in clubbing, he said at a house party it’s easier to just go to sleep but you never no in a club. Obviously I am totally hurt by this.
I think I used to believe the same at some point when I was much younger, although I had not really established such strong values back then. I used to think back then that a man is only as faithful as his options. That idea made some sense to me back then when I saw all these celebrity scandals and such. But back then I was a hedonistic type. I didn't really understand the true meaning of values as in resisting harmful temptations. Actually, if my values were stronger, I'd even resist alcohol knowing it's unhealthy and only offers short-term pleasure and not long-term benefits. It's still a weakness of mine. But I'm pretty sure I can at least resist the harmful temptation of some random flirty girl at a bar (at least I have successfully multiple times, and it wasn't difficult even with the pretty ones).
But I think if your guy has some decency and truly believes he can't keep it in his pants while wasted at a night club, he shouldn't be going to night clubs in the first place while he's with you until he starts to believe otherwise. If a guy doesn't have strong enough values to resist temptations, then the second best thing he can do is distance himself from them.
Well he is telling me now that he can, and he would never get to wasted to the point he doesn’t know who he is with! He is saying now that when he said ‘I don’t know’ to my question, ‘what would you do in that situation?’ He said that he would never act and it would only ever be if he was so pissed and he thought it was me (LOL) he’s saying in this way he would do it otherwise never. Tbh I think he is just trying to sugar coat it as I got really upset when he said there was a chance for him to cheat if he got really drunk, as drunk people don’t know what their doing. Actually I got so upset to the point I want to break up with him now just for that comment... I mean how can you even imagine yourself like that if you have a girl?
Yeah, I absolutely can. But then again, I rarely get so drunk that I don't know what I am doing. And when I do, I usually just pass out and sleep, so there's no way I can cheat on anyone while I am sleeping.
I don't drink but if i was to be in it, it would had depended on how much love and respect i got for her. But first off, if you loved and respected your girl, you'd never get yourself swamped with Alcohol
Put it like this: once I am in a drunk stage that could make me consider it... execution of the idea would not longer be possible.
Yes, I think I can. But if Jennifer Aniston is the temptation? I'm giving in drunk or sober, idgaf 😁
HELL NAH! But I'm not even faithful even when I'm sober, so you're asking the wrong dude!
Probably not. Especially if I was attracted to the girl.
I keep myself away from being too drunk. My memory would go blank and easy to say yes...
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