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The short-haired girl made me laugh when she said that people get intimidated by her short hair. What's with women thinking that every time someone finds something like that unattractive it's about intimidation? It isn't, it's just not attractive. It's like a broke guy saying that women are intimidated by his lack of money. Ridiculous.As for the rest, he's really saying what people really think in their heads. It seems harsh because he's putting a number on it, and we aren't usually as open when it comes to this stuff because naturally we don't want to make someone feel like they're completely ugly and make them feel terrible. More often than not people usually soften the blow by pointing to something like hair length, colour, something else like that and saying that they're not our type than simply telling telling them "I don't think you look attractive". In the end he chose the looks because that's the way most people choose a partner anyway. Attraction matters, it's what makes the difference between a platonic friend and a sexual/romantic partner. Two people with great personalities and with no attraction can only be best friends. He could also tell from her energy that she'd be a good match too, and again this is how most people choose a partner. Women always talk about "spark" and "chemistry", this is really what they're talking about. He did also score her an 8 on personality after all.
Sounds kind of lame to me rating on things like hair color but I don't fault the guy. At least he was ballsy to express his honest opinion. I go by a ternary system because that's genuinely all that matters to me: "Very attractive, attractive, not my taste". I don't find it worthwhile to get any more granular than that. It's not a sugar coating thing. It's like if "Very attractive" is 7.5-10, I really don't see what's the difference between "7.5" and "9" as far as her appeal to me.On one of your comments:>> He said he prefers personalty over looks, he chose to meet the girl who was the most attractive to him rather than meet the girl who engaged him in a very interesting conversation.I'm admittedly a weirdo but I think part of it is because he's lacking some "personality information". How much personality can someone deduce from just a voice? It's like how much confidence can you tell if a man just talking to him without seeing his body language? What if he has crazy eyes and is fidgeting the whole time? You can't see it. I do think the guy is probably a bit on the superficial side but I think our eyes are useful tools in assessing someone's personality.
It's like how much confidence can you tell [of] a man just talking to him without seeing his body language? What if he has crazy eyes and is fidgeting the whole time? [...]
So in my opinion, if you take away someone's sight and ask them to rate, you aren't just taking away their superficial preferences. You're also taking away some of their ability to assess the other person's personality. So it's going to lead to different results, in the same way, that a blind man could be superficial in the sense that he loves a certain type of voice, or certain kind of perfume, but doesn't mean that being deprived of sight means he's only judging by what someone else is saying.
The only way I think to minimize all superficiality is to have them communicate by text. But even then, verbal exchanges could be flawed (there could be all sorts of deception and bias, in the same way, that assessments based on looks or smell or sound can be flawed). And at that point, a heterosexual guy might rate another guy a 10/10 in terms of text exchanges, but how superficial is it for him to be disappointed when he founds out the person is a guy?
I guess I don’t see the problem. Our brains do the same thing on daily basis since the beginning of time. We may not assign a specific number rating but we scan and rate them as a genetic choice naturally. Plus i don’t see him as being cruel or rude. He was honest and even in how difficult it was to do. If those girls were all in a club he would have approached the same one on Looks and worked his way down the rating scale had he not been attractive to her or match personality wise.
It was so awkward and I'd die in that situation having to rate everyone. At least he gave his opinion and he wasn't a dick about it. You could actually tell he felt bad or just that he didn't want to do it.
People generally rate someone arbitrarily 1 to 10 when they are asked to. Everyone’s standards are not all the same though on which numbers are acceptable to them, so the numbers don’t really mean anything. It’s just the task they have been asked to complete, so they throw something down and he’s obviously being nicer than necessary because he’s on camera. In reality he thinks 2 of the girls are a little attractive (Girls 2 & 5), but he wants to talk to them first and one is OK (Girl 8). So if girl 8 comes through with a great personality and he strikes out with the front runners she might win out, but he’s going to focus first on girl 2 & 5. The rest he just doesn’t find attractive at all and the numbers are bogus. I’d say that’s pretty standard… When you scan a room of women, there’s usually one or two that stand out.
He was asked (and paid) to do this by the dudes who make these `controversial` videos for a living, and so he did it. I don't know any person who assigns a number from 1-10 to the person they interact with, that's just shows a fundamental misunderstanding of what numbers are for, like if our cavemen ancestors who had to count their fruits and sheep using isomorphism had to watch this video they would be deeply disappointed.brb deleting this from my history lol dont want youtube to recommend these stuffs to me now
I understand why this upsets you and some people, but I don't understand why having preferences and aesthetic standards is such a bad thing. YOU have guys you consider hot and you consider ugly. This is just human nature.But I personally wouldn't be able to body shame them to their face though.
See, I have problem with him contradicting his statement. He said he prefers personalty over looks, he chose to meet the girl who was the most attractive to him rather than meet the girl who engaged him in a very interesting conversation. He didn't have any interesting conversation with the pretty girl, he liked talking to the black Christian girl and the short haired girl, their personalities are more better, yet he chose the pretty one. That's kind of disappointing.
Honestly, I didn't see that part cuz I didn't wanna watch this with the volume on at work. Lol
This is like one of the most awkward and hurtful things you have to do when a woman asks you to rate her. It's hard to watch, it would be less biased if they took into account other things like intelligence, creativity, sex drive, friendlessness, diligence etc.
What's the issue with him? I thought it was honest. Uncomfortable, but honest.I do think looks matter to everybody, those who say it don't are probably being hypocritical. And I suppose there's a huge degree of subjectivity involved. The one he chose had a really nice smile and energy.
It was interesting enough to watch it entirely. The girls were/are very 'brave' - after all it must have been obvious to them that their 'ranking' will be made publicly accessible.Basically, I am not a friend of 'rating by scale'. It's more 'miss or pass' to me. Also: in a real life situation the two stages of that 'test' would have happened simultaneously. I don't quite understand for what reasons you 'critisize' the man. I think, he tried to be fair and polite and open; he was in a set-up situation - would he be the same in a realistic scenario?
Felt bad for the girls a bit, but they signed up for it and probably got paid. thought he did a decent job being honest. what's his 10?Honestly thought he aligned well with the English girl/short hair... likely his better date... she likely becomes more attractive physically as he gets to know her. but one never knows within only a few minutes of talk.
Tired. As usually.And no, I have not watched this. Not the type of content for me. Seems too shallow. And yes, I'm judging video by it's title and pic. Meaning I am shallow as well. Meaning I'm hypocryte. I'm too tired for caring. I jsut say this: title and thumbnail is supposed to convince me to watch. This convinced me NOT to.
We all have preferences. I don't think there's anything wrong with what happened, but it did show that you have to keep an open mind about who you engage with, they could be a great match with you, and you wouldn't know without getting to know them a bit. Which is something that I think we all try to do anyway, but yeah.
Each to his or her own, but I like white women, different colored eyes and of course straight hair, from ginger red all the way to black. Variety more choice, you don't do the personality, you do the hot bod.
Yes i believe he underrated lot of them girls, i feel bad for them girls.
Yeah, he did underrate lot of girls. :/
He's not like me i believe beauty is skin deep :D
I think he's being honest about his preference. But boy would I hate to be in those girls position. Awkward!
It makes me feels like I don't want to rate anyone by looks or personality. It seems so dehumanizing.
Personally, I think the guy was generous.I would not rate any of them that highly.A sample size of 10 is nothing, it is silly to expect any kind of good results to come out of that.
They are.We have been bombarded how to be from we popped out from the womb, the majority is receptive because they have a survival strategy to be one in the bunch.Doesn't surprise me if you do the the same whether you are aware of it or not.
After watching this video I think he looks good to look at?
What thoughts are there to have? He's just being honest. This is literally real life. He was too generous with a few of the girls, really. I don't know why you said "my heart sank."
I don't feel much, it didn't surprise me or anything. I don't get why people would get offended. He picked the girl with the highest overall score. Looks and personality both matter.
He was being honest and had preferences, its just human nature.
... well, that explains *perfectly* why my preference is for socializing with women. 😅
Guys having standards: an asshole Girls having standards: a strong independent woman who knows what she wantsJust calling it how I see it
Very true :l
He was forced to be way way more polite and generous than any guy or girl will be in real life. If your heart sunk for this I think you haven't been much outside.
I've seen the opposite scenario... I don't care. These people don't matter to me and it doesn't affect me.
yeah guys and girls are like that. we have flaws and other people notice them and appearance is really important. by the way i didn't like girl he chose. the British one was better
He was pretty inconsistent, like at the start he said he favours personality over looks but then he completely flipped at the end. I guess just having a bunch of hot chicks lined up in front of him made him a little crazy. And yes, it's pretty typical for a guy to get bamboozled by a hot chick, but that's how biology works anyway. But, you know, at least we're not obsessed over how much money you earn.
Dora is pretty y'all pretty accent too. Best personality: winner & the girl with braids.
Ok who is he? Is he like some god? His just a dude you’ll never meet in your life so it shouldn’t bother you
Why do you hope most people aren't like him? He seems like a nice person, he was just doing the task he was asked to perform for the video.
I don't see what he did wrong. He was presented with 10 girls he had to rate and then talk to them without being biased by physical attraction. He felt honest and humble. So I really don't understand why your heart "sank".
I don’t really see the issue.What was wrong with that?
Honestly? I just thought Asian girls look pretty; that's about it. If you want to know my opinion about rating specifically, I'm a number person, so it comes naturally to me and I don't see why it would be bad, so long as you're being honest.
I thought the guy seemed like a decent guy. Not sure what your issue with him was.
He's your average I'd say... I don't understand what he did wrong.
this was awkward and painful af to watch. it was like the bachelor/bachelorette, somebody wins but everybody else loses, which is a big blow to the confidence. they really shouldn't make a competition out of this.
That's the life I am afraid. I like it and always will.
Welcome to evolution where sexual attraction is a necessary thing.If this offends you, might as well complain to mother nature. Or go hug a tree.
Well, I’m pretty sure that if you were offended by this then you probably didn’t watch it. It basically compared attractiveness to personality, and it was supposed to show you that rating a person on their physical appearance is messed up and stupid.
@pinkgoat And I'm pretty sure if you took a moment to actually read what OP said, you would have realised she said: "What are your thoughts? My heart sank after I saw this video. I just hope most guys and girls aren't like him.""I hope most guys and girls aren't like him" - that part is what I replied to.
Well that was awkward. I feel bad for them but I don’t understand why anyone would voluntarily put themselves in such a situation.
Girls size up guys, just as much as the vise Versa is true.. women just do it with materialistic things... it's nothing new or different... guys just don't make as big a deal about being objectified as women do
I don't see anything wrong with the video. Its normal for a guy to go for the girl he personally finds the most beautiful.
The dude was brutally honest and I think he rated them the same as I would but none of those chics were over a 7.5 in looks...
Not being mean but your not even a 7.5 J. S.
@Butterfly-x Guess we have something in common, you're not even a 7 !
I’ve been told I was an 11/10 before smh lol
@Butterfly-x I've been told I'm the hottest guy alive. TWICE. What's your fucckin point? The cool thing about being a dude is, I don't have to look good, I can be an old geezer in my 60s and 70s like Hugh Hefner, but have a ton of wealth and be banging chics 1/3rd my own age!
My point was you calling me a 7 when I’ve been told opposite, It’s just kinda annoying when not that good looking guys can talk about women looks, by the way a girl doesn’t have to be good looking or rich for a guy to bang her, as long as you got a pussy girls can get laid all they want
That’s why it’s better being a girl
@Butterfly-x I just told you I've been called the most good looking guy alive by TWO DIFFERENT WOMEN. I've been with women WAYYY HOTTER than you (you couldn't even lick their shoelaces). Everything you'er saying against me can be said against you. If I'm such a 'not good looking guy' to you, then scurry along to your little beta boy toys who don't even know how to find the G-Spot!
@Butterfly-x P. S. (read comment above first) women hit the wall in their 30s and YOU WILL TOO. Men age like FINE WINE, women age like SOUR MILK. We men get better with age, and when we get our financial house in order, we can travel the world and have any woman we want. That's why I don't really give a fucc if you think I'm hot or not physically. That's not the most important thing for a man. But it is for a woman.
@Butterfly-x Without your snap filter, your fake dyed hair and your makeup (you'd dare not post a pic of yourself without those three), you're not even a 6.5
You literally sound like a beta male & you sound like a cry baby, I don't know what world your living in where men get better with age but um ok have fun in fairytale land, by the way I honestly didn’t think you’d get so defensive over this, like you said you don’t care but if you didn’t care you wouldn’t have wrote back a whole paragraph
@Butterfly-x Think whatever you want snowflake. I don't mind belittling little brats online. It's what I do in the real world too. Slapping and whipping little bitches in my BDSM Castle Dungeon chamber. They get lippy, and I show them their place. That's what a REAL ALPHA MALE does.
Bruh you need mental help
@Butterfly-x B! tch, you need an attitude adjustment and to get laid by an actual alpha male stud like me. Not these beta males who buy you flowers and call you nice names JUST TO GET SOME PUSSY.
I told you girls can get laid easily more than guys, your reply just proved it 😂
@Butterfly-x They can get laid, but not by top quality men. Once a woman hits her late 30s. and early 40s, all that attention she got in her teens and 20s go out the window. So you better enjoy the attention while it lasts, because a whole new batch of hot sexy bitches will soon take your place once you hit the WALL and the WALL takes no prisoners!
You just said I need to get laid by you, So basically your saying your not a quality man, I’ve been trying to say that this whole time🙄, plus bitch when I’m in my 30s I’d have kids by then & I won’t be worried about no man, the young bitches can take all the men they want idc
@Butterfly-x I said you've been with low quality men UNLIKE ME and you should, because your discernment is distorted. And the sex would be fun because I'd prove everything you think about me WRONG in just one night. And you'd come back for more and more. But whatever, we're not even on the same continent, go have fun with all your DOWN UNDA MATES.
I wouldn’t told you with a 12 feet pole, ok mate cheers bye
@Butterfly-x What I mean by Distorted view is the one you have of yourself because you've been told you're an 11 out of 10 by a beta dude who was licking your ass hairs just to get on your good side to get some pussy. Post a full body pic like me without all the snap filters, hair dye and makeup. But you won't do it because you know everything I just said is ACCURATE AF!
i thought you were leaving!
@Butterfly-x Prove me wrong, post a pic without all the FLUFF FAKE-UP and let's see that 11 out of 10 you got hiding behind there! YOU... WON'T... DO... IT!
You right I won’t do it... so bye
@Butterfly-x Because you know damn well you're nowhere close to a 7 out of 10 let alone an 11 out of 10! But you love getting attention from betas who kiss your ass just to get laid. Real alphas like me don't kiss your ass and you should probably find an azzhole just like me who will put that little bitchy lippy self in your place! *deuces*
If an alpha male is like you then yeah there’s no way I’d want to be with an alpha, but then again their are different types of alpha males, & ur not my type
@Butterfly-x Because you're insecure, you love the EGO BOOST you get from betas lying to you and inflating your sense of self worth by telling you that you're hotter than you actually are.
I didn’t claim that I was hotter than I “actually am* I was just told by heaps of guys, doesn’t matter if their alpha or betta, their all male, so unless you have the same face as Arthur Rimbaud then idc
@Butterfly-x Arthur Rimbaud? the dude from the 19th century?
@Butterfly-x Usually little teeny boppers like you, are in love with some pop star like Justin Bieber but a dude from the 1800s? Are you a tiny little 4'11 with small boobs too? You look like you're the type who is into emo shit too.
I used to have the biggest crush on Justin Bieber when I was 9 then I stopped when I was like 17 coz he looks ugly now,& no I don’t like emo stuff
@Butterfly-x SEE I knew I had it right! And answer my other fucckin question, you're like 4'11 and small boobies, maybe 105 lbs. soaking wet.
Bruh wtf I’m not a midget, 4”11😂🤣😩. I’m 5”5 & I’d say around average boobs
@Butterfly-x Mmm hhmmm sure. You look like a little mouse in that pic and no bigger than a B cup. If you lived in the states, I could definitely make you fall for me too.
So I must not be below 7 like you the
@Butterfly-x Women are the hypergamous creatures, men usually always have to lower their standards. One hot night in the sack with me, and you'd fall in love. I know your type, that's how I knew you were into Justin Bieber at one point. You'd love my muscles, my face and my big cock and you'd always wanna snuggle on my chest and keep you safe from the big bad world out there. That's the LOOK you give off.
https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0727240/ no sorry I don’t like your face I love this face 😍😍 like god dayumm that face is amazing
@Butterfly-x He has thin lips. I have nice full lips to smooch your lips on your face and down below.
i could kiss his lips all day/night
I don’t see anything wrong with it. I personally wouldn’t go on that but those girl did put themselves in front of the camera.
Oh and I don’t find him attractive at all. Not my type.
If this bothers you so much I'd suggest you don't go outside.
LOTS OF NONSENSE TOO FAR LEFT LEFT. I will only date girls of my own race,
LoL.. How would you feel if he ranked you? I can rank you if you want?
I always do rating in percentages not in numbers. Like 60% hot 40% cute.
I didn't watch. I see it enough in real life..
So the hottest girl won, hooray science! :P
i feel like it's stupid to do this in person.
also what do you think is "so bad" about this guy?
i mean do you "really" think that in like a 5 minute talk, you "actually" learn her personality? yeah in 5 seconds at looking at someone you know exactly what they look like. there's no second guessing. with personality it takes years. so his decision makes sense
Nothing wrong with it. I’d rate him 5/10
Lol I coincidentally discovered that channel today
"gag me" I hate these kind of videos
The girl he ended up with was a freaking godess
I love watching these but man are they cringey...
5 minutes of my life that never come back :(
He's spot on with his ratings,.
Dude was way to generous.
Truth often hurts.
Well he’s a dick
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