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Do most women really want a dominant man, or is just to shift all responsibility and accountability to him whist maintaining authority herself?

This is called topping from the bottom the submissive person gives all responsibility and accountability to the dominant person but refuses to respect the boundaries of the dominant person.

The dominant person has to organize all the dates, be dominant in bed, and sometimes also in life. If things are not up to expectations of the submissive person the dominant person gets potentially socially or emotionally punished by humiliation, withholding from affection, silent treatment, threatening etc.

The man has to take his girl on a date.
She says she wants to go wherever.
The man goes to his favourite place assuming his girl is okay with it.
On the date she mentions nothing.
When they get home she scolds him for going to the wrong venue.
To prevent it in the future she brings up past mistakes, sometimes from years ago and withholds affection for a couple days.

Have you experienced something like this?
Do most women really want a dominant man, or is just to shift all responsibility and accountability to him whist maintaining authority herself?
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